My bf was married and we starting dating before he got divorced and have been dating for 2 yrs now. He tells me that he loves me but I think he is cheating on me b/c he goes over to his ex-wife's house to spend time with his kids which i understand, but sometimes he spends the night over there. the past week he has spent 4 nights there. he says that he doesnt want to be with her anymore but sometimes the way he acts makes me think different. I've seen pics he took with his phone of his ex in her undies. and he also said that he went out of town once but i have suspisions that he didnt. may have proof too. can anyone help me with this issue? do you think that he is unfaithful to me?
2006-07-05 13:59:59 · 17 answers · asked by Baby_Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey I'm sorry to tell you this but that son of a B*^%# is cheating on you its plain as day you may love him but that cant hide the fact hes cheating on you he cheated with you on his wife now hes cheating on you with his wife so I'm telling you this and i hope you'll take my advice leave the trash on the street and go find your self some one new
2006-07-06 06:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by black_rose8666 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer to this is that you hold the answer or at least have the information to make a clear decision. You're now wondering what I mean, so I'll explain. You have been dating this guy for two years. You should be the one person who knows all of his behavioral traits in his current life and therfore you know whether or not they have changed. I would say to remember back when you both had been dating for only a year. How does he act now compared to then? Unless the guy is really good at playing his mind off, then he is going to have some form of conscious guilt. This can come in many forms, so thats why I say to analyze all of his behavioral traits and look for subtle and major changes. A common form is that maybe he doesn't want to have sex with you nearly as much or at all, or on the other hand you may have noticed an increase in his sex drive. If you have seen a change in this, then its almost a dead giveaway. I hope he is not cheating because that is horrible and obviously I can't tell you whether or not he is. My main point would be to just review and monitor his behavior now compared to six months ago, compared to one year ago. Good Luck!!
2006-07-05 21:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That happened to me but I was the ex, mother of his children, and he was coming here to see me and we were acting like a married couple. No doubt there, your guy is not thinking of his children at all... poor kids, will be much more mixed up to see their parents living a pretend family life for some days, then, back to the gf... Yes. your man is definitely cheating on you.. that is how you got him, no?, before his divorce. What goes around comes around.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. He's that kind. Run for your life!!
2006-07-17 20:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about men is they arent as transparent as women tend to think. If you think hes cheating then he probably is. Its very hard to come to this realization but I think the faster you come to it the better off you'll be. Your proof that you wanted is the pictures on his camera phone, he shouldnt be taking photos of his ex-wife if hes dating you.
Just out of curiosity... did you begin dating him before or after the divorce was final?
2006-07-17 20:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but yes. My ex had been married before and he said he never saw her, but later I found out they had been meeting and making out in his car, so if there is a bed present, then I would say yes he is cheating. Sorry.
2006-07-05 21:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by carmatic410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that you started seeing him before he was divorced is a good indication that he would do it to you as well. Besides, if you truly believe that he is, then you should ask him or go with him some time.
2006-07-17 20:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got pics of his ex in undies u can tell that he is cheating already
Be wise and dump him for a better guy
2006-07-05 21:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by wen godzilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....Ummmm.......
Now kiddies the phrase of the day is ........
"HUGE RED FLAG"!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why doesn't he bring the kids home with him when he wants to see him why can't they stay the night at his house? He doesn't love her anymore but has a semi-naked picture of her on his phone? Here's a quarter, go buy a clue!!!!! He's f**king her!!!!!
2006-07-17 20:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like what you said...has pics of her in her undies
leave him now and he is a total cheat and liar
let me tell you how
when he goes to work or the ex's place
PACK THE ENTIRE HOUSE AND MOVE
HE WILL SHITT HIMSELF ON THAT ONE
IT WORKED FOR ME AND CAN FOR YOU!
2006-07-12 21:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he acts differently with you sometimes he doesn't speak to you for hours and he forgets your dates or to call you and he doesn't care about you that much as he used to.i'm sorry but i think that this is a serius i-am-cheating-on-you-but-you-do-not-suspect issue.
2006-07-05 21:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋