I often miss the opportunity of making my way into a relationship with a woman for the simple fact that most of them become my close friends. When this happens it is hard to make them turn into girlfriends and/or lovers. What am I doing that is preventing me to achieve the boyfriend status?
2006-07-05 13:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by Curisoso001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. You are being too nice.
2. You are waiting too long or not making your move.
If you want them, you have to hit on them. Let your horns grow just a little bit. Tell them you want to take them out, not "sometime" but this saturday night, and have plans made for the two of you. Look her in the eyes while you say this. Be assertive. Eye contact is so powerful - If she is into you, she is getting turned on right then and there. Take her out. Be a man. You have to do things to keep her interested in you in the beginning. If she calls last minute and asks you to meet with her or something, say sorry I already have plans.
Remember, YOU are the hot commodity, the prize to be won!
2006-07-05 13:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by timdog1210 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well u shld be straight and show u care not as friend but as a lover..visit her surprised her w/gifts putting soem love notes on it..send eht txt messages on her celfon askin her for a dinner alone..and maybe treat her on a movie then fr there bring her to the seaside for a walk..all these actions may ur girl noticed that ur treating her special not as a freind rt?
2006-07-05 16:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by melinda v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably a great guy to have around and very brotherly. Why don't you ask your female friends what attracted them to you in the first place, that way you will learn the answer
2006-07-05 13:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a hard truth, but if a girl likes you as MORE than a friend, she will normally let you know. if it has been a while and she is wanting to ne friends, it normally means that is all she wants
2006-07-05 13:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel before you become close friends
2006-07-05 13:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't think it's your choice to make, and theres little you can do about it.
2006-07-05 19:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋