2006-07-05 13:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by love_abde2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First I'm sorry for your lose. I just lost my mother this Febuary 10, she was 59. My mother had health problems my whole life. BUT, she was the strongest person that has ever walked. We knew my mother wouldn't live to be old, she lived 10 years longer than the doctors said she would, but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with. My family had to make the hardest decision we have ever made, we had to decide to take her off of life support, the doctors say there was no hope..So while they removed her machine's, I was rubbing her feet and slowly watching life leave my mothers body. I know that she isn't sick anymore, I know she is in heaven and all that good stuff, BUT again, that doesn't make it easy to deal with. I'm looking for the same answer you are, will my life ever be the same. Is life worth living anymore? She was my best friend, my protector, my life, heart, and most of all, she was MY mama. A minute don't go by that I don't think of her, I try really hard sometimes just to hear her voice. I hope we both find the Peace we are looking for. I wish I could help you, but I'm in the same boat you are in, BUT, I will pray for you tonight, and ask GOD to help us both....:)
2006-07-05 13:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by bitchy_woman_yet_sweet 2 · 17⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't say that sounds normal. I would think about talking to a counsler about it if you can.
My grandmother died 8 months ago, and I'm in the state you are, and even though I still cry, I know it's not normal, and I need to seek help to stop. Sometimes others don't understand how much it hurts, but at some point, the natural state of greiving should taper off, and you should begin "healing". However, that should have happened quite a while ago.
Maybe you are depressed, which isn't the same as grieving, but can be made worse while greiving, too.
2006-07-05 14:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, It is so normal. I does get easier, but I am 34 and my mom died 11 years ago. I think about her EVERY day. I still cry. I CAN NOT listen to country music since she died. I cry over EVERY song. Seems like I can find something to cry about even if it is just remembering that she liked the song or would like it. I do not know how I have coped with it.........I guess just because life goes on. I have two kids, a husband and a life. Your mom wants you to be happy. She is still with you and if you believe in Jesus, you will be with her again. This is the only thing that keeps me going.........even now......!
I am sorry for your loss.
2006-07-05 13:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-05 15:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by faulkenberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal. You can never get over the loss of a parent or significant other, but you should find ways to cope with it as it may take a toll on your health. You have to realize this is life, and every single human will face the loss of a loved one. Be strong !
2006-07-05 15:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dad died three years ago too!! and i think about and remember him with Great love Honour and still with tears, yes it's normal.
2006-07-05 13:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad has been gone since March of 2003...and I still cry over him. It's completely normal.
2006-07-05 14:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Reese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal you loved your mother,it only gets a little better with time!
2006-07-05 14:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by tim p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is u lost someone u love deeply about..... but ur mom will feel sad that u are not happy... she wants the best for u and and when she looks down on u she wants to see u happy not sad, but yes it is normal.... i'm soooo sry for ur loss... take care...
2006-07-05 13:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋