bisexuality/pansexual?

Question

what are your views on the subject? Is it against God if you don't have sex with the same gender, but still consider yourself bisexual? What about being pansexual (attracted to all forms of sex; boy/girl/intersex/transgendered)? Is having the feeling against God, acting on them, or both? If it's a sin, how do I "save" myself?

also, I'm a 20 year old, going to school in Mass, happyly in a relationship with a female of 2 years.

Answer 1

I'm bisexual, and I think that however you explore that, so long as it's consensual, non-harmful, and with adults, it's perfectly fine.

I'm actually starting to wonder if "pansexual" or "ambisexual" fit me better. Hmmmmmmm.

I don't think that these are sinful feelings, nor do I think that it's a sin not to have sex w/the same sex if you're bisexual. Sexual orientation is determined by what gender you're attracted to, not what gender you have sex with.

Answer 2

Its not a sin, but it is something you should get some help with in clarifying. Chemistry,psychology and upbringing play a big role in psychosexual behavior. So do genetics. See a counselor and work out why you are feeling that way.There is alot about the question that is not said, your age, background. Feelings are not facts, people feel like killing other people ,but most people don't do it. Watch out for diease if you are very sexually active and protect yourself and others. Good Luck

Answer 3

God gave us free will right? well he had to have known that some people would be attracted to the same sex and act on that belief. I personally see nothing wrong at all with being sexually open to several ideas. Furthermore I really doubt God cares what we do in our spare time.

My answer is it is not a sin, and you don't need to save yourself. Just be safe in your sexual adventures, gluttony is a very grave illness.

Be at peace, be with God,
Silence

Answer 4

I really don't believe a loving God would judge us harshly for what goes on in our heads. The confusion comes from some people's belief that if you have a desire or impulse and you don't act it out, that will somehow damage you. In reality who you sleep with of whatever gender has to be a decision based on what you believe is right morally, emotionally and on every other level, not just sexually.

Answer 5

It is not a sin as long as you don't act on those feelings.
God meant for man to be with woman. I can tell you believe in God, so praying for strength against temptation will help, but God will only help those that help themselves. :)

Answer 6

I say that it is who u were ment to be and it isn't against God because that is how he made u. You should be happy the way u are. Your friends will always be beside u know matter what u do.

Answer 7

Yes it's considered adultery, because it's not what god intended. If you want to save yourself. Ask God for forgiveness with all your heart. repent yourself, pray to Jesus. May God save you. God bless

Answer 8

you could become a eunuch and join some kind of monastery. Other than that, I think you need to stop thinking about it--it's not that big a deal. You will find that out when you visit san francisco.

Answer 9

God designed us to be attracted to the opposite sex. Period.

Answer 10

No one can save themself - only Jesus Christ can save us from the lust of the flesh that blinds us, steals our souls away, and eats at us like a cancer. Ask him how to save you from such unnatural attractions.