Why do women use unnecessary emotional violence towards a men?

Question

Given that they learn it from mum and the way they treated dad, what gives them the right to use it towards us? Men don't want to sit on the outside of the cave all day guarding the horizon and then come in and get their buttons pressed, when they want nurturing. Then women wonder why he goes to the arms of another woman, and when she also feels quite safe hes going to leave ,she'll start with it as well. Whats the pay off? or is it a deliberate ploy to sabotage relationship? By the way i know why, lets see if you do!

Let me ad. I'm a life skills trainer and i teach everything they never taught you about love, relationships work and money. beyond the norm! there seems to be a lot of defense and Denial going on, how about some authenticity?

entiendes que lo dicho ?

i'll give you a clue, it comes from seeing little boys treated as first class citizens! it's called resentment for all men as a gender!
now who's in denial????

I love the answers from the Miss innocents ha ha "not me" yea right!

Ask "any man" about it, yes i did say any!

NOTE HOW MANY WOMEN ARE IN BLATENT DENIAL ABOUT THIS GUYS!

Answer 1

First, I'd like to say you are in a situation that not all women are in. My mother never abused my father at all, My mother loved him and respected him in full Godly order and love.

Second , you are int he wrong relation and with the wrong girl.
or woman.
Third. She may be fed up with you bc of other problems you may give her, ever though of that?

fourth. Are you a good prize? do you do all you have to responsibly? or are you lame and a couch potatoe taht does nothing other than annoy her?

pls dont look for an excuse to find someone else now, try to fix what is wrong with yr woman's reactions.

but before you see further, remember "you can only start looking into the beam in another person's eyes once you've evaluated yr own beam in yr eye".

maybe both of you are indeed sabotaging this relation. In fact its a game for you i see here. YOu know the answer and you ask and instead fo going to yr woman and fix the problem yourself.

Either you are really bad to her, and she is reacting to you, or like you said she has it inherited and unless you both go to counseling not much will improve.
forget about telling her you write in here about her too!

that's if you want to live ...

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE AT ALL VIOLENT WITH THEIR MAN. "My mom she's the source of a kindness you'd find so puzzling!"

but if you are with a woman who is violent wit hyou, figure out why , which hyou have, and do something about it.

Answer 2

What is wrong with some of you guys? are you not strong enough to deal with a women's emotions? I agree if they are faking to make you do things their way it's wrong.A real good woman wouldn't use any thing like that. They would talk to you about what's going on with them honestly.

Answer 3

Men ask for it and deserve the emotional outbursts we woman give them. This keeps the man in check. So what if he runs into the arms of another woman--good riddance!

Answer 4

your very right its not right to act that way but alot of times it sounds like your running across immature women and they just dont know how to handle a real relationship. you dont have to put up with abuse because there are many of us who dont do that...

Answer 5

Look if they treat you like crap its because the DONT like you! If a lot or women do it, its not them, ITS YOU!

Answer 6

they are too weak physically to use force, so they turn to unnecessary emotional violence...it's the only Ace they got...and it works.

Answer 7

deliberate attempt to sabotage

Answer 8

you've met the wrong girls hon. No one should get emotional abuse when they get home.