I am 11 yaers old. I am very upset because my parents treat my awfull. I fell like know one loves me. Evry nitgth when I go to bed I just cry myself to sleep. Sometimes I wish I was dead. What should I do?
2006-07-05 13:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first of all, don't talk about death.....you are such a young person, you have not had time to live.....
Your situation is one of a special nature.....have you tried to talk to your parents about your feelings???? Your parents do love you, of this I am sure of.....sometimes, young folks mistake the sternness of a parent as the parents not loving them; other times young folks tend to become upset due to their lack of ability to understand why their parents are trying to get them to become responsible.
I have raised two children myself, and both have turned out to be decent, law abiding young adults. Give your parents a break and try to do as they as you to. It won't be easy, but put your best foot forward.
2006-07-05 14:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what life is like now, keep in mind you are in control of your destiny..Do well in school, make good friends, and understand that every person in this world is unique and here for a reason. You just havent found your reason yet. As for your parents, unfortunately, they are only human and they have issues that have nothing to do with you. Some adults are really selfish and probably shouldnt be parents. But that doesnt mean that you shouldnt be here. You'll be okay and people love you, dont worry about that..
2006-07-05 20:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by lkhbhurnje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie. I am so sorry you feel so awful. You know sometimes alotta people, not just kids feel the same way. You have to tell your parents how you feel, right away.
Please honey, don't ever say you wish you were dead. I don't even know you, but I know you were meant for great things. Maybe you can also talk to a school counselor about your problems at home.
If you really need to as well, I am a great listener. I have a 10 year old son. If you e-mail us, I bet we can help you feel like you have people who care and love you.
We are here for you sweetie!
2006-07-05 20:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know most parents do what they think is right - Don't tell your parents this but even t hey make mistakes.. Plus what you might think is awful might be because you might be treating them awful too. And if no one loved you - then your parents would only give you a bed 2 pairs of cloths for your room, and feed you Bread, water, Tofu, and more tofu.
2006-07-05 20:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be optimist and try to figure out the problem
maybe you werent able to prove that you're not a child anymore
take some responsibilities (small ones) or try to tell them straight that you're not happy with the way they're treating you
remember life is a beautiful thing and wait to see the sun shinig again SMILE nothing deserves to be upset about
2006-07-05 20:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by cactus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, your parents probably love you with all their hearts. I know how it is to feel unloved and there have been times when I've bawled myself to sleep. But you're young. You don't need to feel so unhappy. Try talking to your mother or father about how you feel. If you don't feel comfortable doing so, talk to a grandparent, teacher, counselor, or a friend's parent that you trust. Keep your chin up, ok?
2006-07-05 20:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Blackadder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is so horribly sad! You must seek out counseling either through school or a church. Surround yourself with friends and people who care for you. Have you tried talking to your parents? Maybe it would help if you had a counselor, minister or close family friend or relative help you talk with your parents. I wish you luck and God bless you!
2006-07-05 20:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by amomentssunlight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do your parents treat you badly? Of course someone loves you. You don't wish you could die,you don't want to.
2006-07-05 20:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell someone or just live your life and treat them the same way they treat you dont worry about it because it will pass i promise good luck
2006-07-05 20:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by ashley h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i know excatly what u mean- you could pray about it or you could talk to your parents about it- tell them how you feel-
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-05 20:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by cayla_152 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋