My Boyfriend broke up with me because I wanted to remain a virgin till I went to college, and he threw a fit when he heard me say that. I have no clue what to even to say to him or to my friends explaining are break up. We had been together for three months, and he just brought up the topic of my virginity when I was at his July 4th party. He was mad when i said I didn't want to do it.
2006-07-05 12:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm... always a toughy to answer, but I'm an old guy and my past experience tells me that there are just two ways to deal with a break-up...
1) Try to patch things up, if you think he's really worth it.
2) Or move on. It's a big sea out there... find a bigger fish and catch him.
As for the sex thing - I can't help you much there. The world has changed a lot since I was young enough to have concerns about virginity.
I'll just say this about decision making in general: Follow your heart and use your good common sense; try to consider both of them at the same time. When the two match up and agree with each other, you're on the path to a good choice. I hope this advice helps out to solve both of your questions.
I think you'll make the right decision on both problems in the long run... Don't worry.
If you want another opinion though, I recall reading good ole AnnLanders in the newspaper just about everyday of my younger life. Her columns almost always seemed to have a problem like yours in them... you might enjoy reading a few of them just to see what you find. She was a pretty smart lady. You can check her out here. http://www.creators.com/lifestyle_show.cfm?columnsName=alc
Finally... your answer to my question, the view from bench thing, (... it's such a very silly question compared to yours that it make me feel a little embarassed. ) ... Anyhow, your answer is right on the money for accuracy. Please, please, please reread the original question, (see my blog for a hint in the right direction) and edit your answer to include a bit of humor, (which was part of the criteria for getting "the best answer" and earning a quick 10 Yahoo point reward.)
Either way, thanks for your answer... and good luck you. I hope I get to choose you as my best responder.
2006-07-05 15:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know breaking up hurts....but be proud of yourself....can you think of how many girls are out there who value their virginity as you do???whatever they say..however advanced we may now be...somethings as fundamental as that do not change...so try preservig that for the RIGHT person!
what are you to do now...just get on with your life..you're better of without somebody who doesn't know how to value and respect you!
2006-07-05 19:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by kikayhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourslef, do I REALLY want to be with a guy that broke up with me, just because I wouldnt let him pop my cherry?
2006-07-05 19:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the ground you walk on. Giving up your virginity is not a gift to him (no duh, what guy wouldn't want to be the first and then blab about it later?). Besides, he's not God ... you are Goddess.
2006-07-05 20:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't respect you and your choices, he isn't worth the time. there's someone out there that will respect your choice. tell your friends that it just didn't work out.
2006-07-05 19:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by tsvolleystarr13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. ONe less jerk you have to deal with.
2006-07-05 19:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is a jerk - he is not worth your time.
2006-07-05 19:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by js3333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flict wit him
2006-07-05 19:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by DeeJayno.1playa[dOnT HaTe} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋