Im currently single. Have more time and money to do whatever I want but all I think about is why am I not sharing it with someone special. Are women/a partner so important to who I am?
Is this a rhetorical question? Haha
2006-07-05 12:20:59 · 32 answers · asked by Rob G 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is a rhetorical question. A desire to share your success with someone is common, and biologically normal. It's a natural desire, and if we didn't feel such desires, the human race would soon be extinct.
That said, having a good relationship with a woman is difficult when having that relationship is important to who you are. If you cannot be your own man, you will tend to attract the freaks, and other less than exceptional specimens.
Find a few things you can do that keep you happy when you are single. It'll be good for you, especially if your relationships don't always last, and chicks dig a guy that's into things other than them.
Then, if you still want a girl (I assume that you will!) then go get one, and enjoy.
2006-07-05 12:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You sound like a nice guy....but, IMHO, you've spent so much time getting to where you are that you don't know WHO you are. Right now you *are* what you have. Can you tell someone who you are without talking about being single with money, house, friends, health? I'd suggest sitting down and writing out a new kind of goal: "Find Myself." And map out how you plan on doing it.
I'll bet any amount of money that you'll find the perfect partner during your journey. She might even be heading the same direction.
Good Luck!
~C
2006-07-05 12:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a significant other is always a plus in life.. another soul who helps complete who you are.. one that makes two a couple of good times.. some people are just content with what they have.. but then there are those who feel it's enough to have just themselves.. but crave for more... it's not who you are.. it's what you are.. that makes you complete.. and only you knwo that answer
because what you REALLY want is a girl who loves you for you and not what you have... having more is always a plus.. but a winner/keeper is one that sees you before she sees the cash.. if you can represent yourself to a girl without showing what you have first... that should win her over.. but if you throw it in her face from the start all she will keep seeing is dollar signs left and right.. and then when you say no,..... or accidentally run out.. you will find that it wasn't you but the money that they were in love with.. now I am not saying everyone is like that.. but this is all I see...
I am sorry did I answer the question.. or did I just become your support group? Haha
2006-07-05 12:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by duhblondeone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something you might want to consider is this....You won't ever be completely happy if you are not happy within yourself first, girlfriend or not. You are searching for a girlfriend to make you happy. That is an awful lot of responsibility to place on the girl. Then when there are times that you become unhappy and she is still with you, you will tend to blame her because she isn't making you happy anymore. You must first find happiness for yourself and get yourself content before you make a commitment to someone else. Please! This is what goes wrong so many times in relationships. People try to use other people to make them happy. Happiness comes from within.
2006-07-05 12:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by amomentssunlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a classic CO-DEPENDENCY problem. You only feel defined by the person you are with. It is seriously unhealthy to live this way. You need to some how develope your OWN identity as opposed to one dependent on being involved with someone else.
I suggest, taking a typical "couple" vacation alone i.e. a cruise.
I would also suggest therapy. Sorry, but I do.
2006-07-05 12:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by SWIFFER THE WONDER MUTT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful.. its going to be a lit bit difficult for you to get someone that loves you so much cause you have so much cash to throw around.. but try not to look so hard and be ready to be down to earth..the one that will actually bring a long lasting happiness will soon come not the one that will bring you short term.
2006-07-05 13:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by ademola t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not looking in the right places. No, it is not a rhetorical question. It makes sense because people do not like to be alone. and love and romance make our lives so rewarding.
2006-07-05 12:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you when you want to find a nice lady to settle down with. You may have all this and that but I think sooner or later you would want someone to be with. As of right now, enjoy what you have and when you are ready go look for a nice lady.
I believe that there is someone out there for you but you just need to firgure out when you want to catch that person to be yours forever.
Good luck.
2006-07-05 12:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by DORKALICIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to be able to be happy when you are by your self. then look for a female. A person should not look for the partner to be there to make them happy I have had to learn that over time. first learn what makes you happy then find the one you are looking for in life and make both of you happy. good luck
2006-07-05 12:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man if I was in your postion, I would be using the Hell out of Indepenent Call Girl Escorts. A good site to go on is Eros-Escorts.com. You will find alot of beautiful women to choose from. Like I said, If I was in your position, I would have it MADE!
2006-07-05 12:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋