I met this girl...i didnt like her at first but i fell for her. She called me like 3-5 times a day for a month or so....nothing important, just to call. As soon as i thought she was into me and i opened up and fell for her, she tells everyone she just wants to be friends and now it's like she tries to avoid me sometimes.....she still calls about once a day.
i'm just confused....it's like she wanted the attention...so i gave in and fell for her....now, she doesn't want anything.....SO, what is my next move? I would just say screw it and go on but I honestly think she's playing games....so how should i handle this or what should i do next?
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
2006-07-05 12:15:44 · 14 answers · asked by TBS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is a game player let it go be her friend n thats it.
2006-07-05 12:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to be honest with her and straight up.... maybe she has a low self esteem and she just wants attention she thinks she like a person wants him to show he is intrested and then she looses interest.. that happens alot to ppl... maybe it is something else going wrong i really cant tell you what it is you have to talk to her and ask her what she feels towards you or is there anything bothering her.. maybe she likes you and is insecure thinks you might play with her she might be difficult when it come to trusting people... it could be that she met someone else and doesnt know how to break it to ya' as for you just back off a little and ask her what you should do that she has your answer and youll respect whatever she decides... if she doesnt tell you you wont know and you really care.. just tell her that she should be mature enough to talk about what is going on and what she is thinking and feeling if not dont waste ur time and look for someone that is not playing games
2006-07-05 12:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by legnar_c@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try the romantic approach and send her flowers or something from the secret admirer. I know it sounds childish but if there are more girls out there like me, than they love it when guys are romantic and try to get there attention with the less subtle ways. Just do it and give her hints that it was you, but don't make it too obvious, and eventually she'll catch on and either give you the sign that she likes you too or she'll do the opposite. You never know unless you try.
2006-07-05 12:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Megra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical, people want something, get it, then they don't want it anymore! It was probably more fun for her trying to get your attention than it is for her to keep your attention. Sounds like a lot of head games, and unless you can deal with that, I'd get out! If you want to continue with her, ignoring her would probably work best. Not ignoring her completely, but acting like she isn't a huge interest of yours, that will get her.
2006-07-05 12:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I think you should tell her how you feel. Yeah, that sounds corney but you mind as well tell her that you like her. And if she rejects then oh well. You both can still be friends.
2006-07-05 12:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by DORKALICIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's not playing and she realy wants tot tolk to u and be a freind with u if she stoped calling u then u call her
2006-07-05 12:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop givving her the attention she knows she gots u whooped now reverse it n dont pay attention to her really
2006-07-05 12:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up with her,ask her whats goin on, and ask her if your wasting your time. If that doesn't work, just ignore her.
2006-07-05 12:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her now and tell her to stop calling
2006-07-05 12:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by duff007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games, move on.
2006-07-05 12:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋