okay, there is this girl at my school that i am really attracted to. in chemistry, we exchange glances at eachother. she seems to find ways to look at me. one example would be while turning to say something to her friend, she quickly looks at me. ive never had a conversation with her. i dont know how i would approach her and ask her out on a date. every night, before i go to sleep, the last thing i think about is her. my previous crushes and gfs never gave me the feelings i have about this girl. please help me.
2006-07-05 11:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by persianpride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just walk up to her and talk to her. Its not the end of the world and it wont kill you. You have nothing to lose, WUSS!
2006-07-05 11:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm a dude , I don't think it would be weird but it may come off as a little strong to her. If she passes by you all the time, try accidentally bumping into her or something and ask her a question. It's kinda hard to talk to a girl that's not in any of your classes or doesn't have a locker near you, I have to same problem. But if she's near you and with her friends just smile and say hi, she'll probably like it, then ask her a couple of unrelated things and then things will get easier with talking to her because you'll be more familiar with her.
2016-03-27 05:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off, don't rush over and pour your heart out to her, start off just by saying hi, start a casual conversation mention a band you like or something along those lines. don't write a letter because basically you'll put everything into it, she'll think your a stalker and never talk to you again. so be cool calm and collective, look her in the eyes not at her mouth or chest, listen to what she has to say so you can provide a decent response to any questions she may have. don't try to be someone your not, be yourself. Girls say no, its not a big deal, just suck it up and deal with it, its not the end of the world, just be calm and collective, and don't rush into things, just start a casual conversation, it all starts with a simple hello.
2006-07-05 11:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by renegadechef9_0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 22:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to walk up to her after class or after school and start a conversation, or cut to the chase and ask her out. You won't know until you try. You will always regret it if you don't try. The worst thing that can happen is to get shot down, and then you move on. It's not so bad. A good tip is to bring flowers i you plan to ask her out. Girls always love flowers, always.
2006-07-05 11:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Adam F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you have chemistry together, isn't there any way you could talk to her during this class? perhaps you could ask her about the problem you are working on. is there anywhere else you could talk to her? another class? at lunch? you could just try asking her something about schoolwork. e.g 'i heard you were very good at.........i'm a bit weak here could you help with this......'
it must be very difficult to start a conversation with someone you like but have very little opportunity to get to know. is there any after school events that you could go to where she goes to. perhaps you could meet her there and talk(at first) about school work, or some problem you have in maths etc......anyway, good luck. i'm sure she likes you!
2006-07-05 11:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be her friend. Make small talk and go slow. If it is right it is worth waiting for. Be yourself and let her like you and not the guy you want her to think you are. Don't change for her, if you change, make the change because of her and how her presents in your life has made you feel like making change. Always change for the better. A woman that wants less than you are now isn't worth your time.
2006-07-05 11:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to the girl and just start talking and then after you find somethings out about her just ask her if she's liked to go out on a date with you sometime and give her your number or get hers, but get to know her before you just ask her.
2006-07-05 11:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow and gentle. Be friends with her first. Then if you see she has something for you approach her. Ask her out don't get advise from those reality shows. If that doesn't work you might realize from being her friend you don't even like her.
2006-07-05 11:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know eves dropping is wrong but thats how i started liking the girl i like now i thought she liked me too cuz she did the same thing and just ask if you can talk or get her e-mail if your uncomfterble with talking to 'her' you could talk to her by email then u wont feel so rejected and if she doesnt give you her email adress then thats your first clue but it worked for me but dont be afraid rejection isn't the end of the world "just have fun with her"
2006-07-05 11:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by CD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and ask for help on some class material. Or if you don't have assigned seating. sit by her and casually bring up a conversation.
2006-07-05 11:53:46 · answer #11 · answered by akraft1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋