My friend is the coolest, she's just afraid of all the situations above but she is so great and one of the very few girls in my life that I feel confident is worth my time spent on her.
Please Respond To The Question As If You Were Answering To Her. Thank you!
2006-07-05 11:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by Caleb H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I myself am not a woman, so therefore not a lesbian.
2006-07-05 11:44:31 · update #1
I think she needs to see a councilor to realize her choice of a lesbian lifestyle is at the root of her problems. She obviously is uncomfortable with what she has labeled herself as so therefore will not take part in any activities that would cement her as so. I wish her luck, as it seems to be a growing fad to choose to live ones life this way.
2006-07-05 11:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing wrong with being single. Everyone is born single, and some people stay that way all their lives. If you don't want to be in a relationship, then you shouldn't be in one. You'll just hurt someone else, and maybe get hurt yourself.
Maybe some day, you'll want to be in a relationship. Fine, there's plenty of fish in the sea, but if you don't know what you want, it's pretty hard to get what you want, and sometimes it isn't worth the effort. When you're ready for sex, or girls, or boys, or commitment, or love, or people, you can go and get it. Until then, a friendly, "Sorry, but I'm not looking for that sort of thing right now" should be enough. If not, "excuse me, but I want you to get the F away from me" usually does the trick.
2006-07-05 18:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be afraid sure it a new thing but how are you going to find out about those things if you dont try all of us one time or another had to make a leap of fate to try some ting new you are i great person cool smart and great to hang out but you can put some things on hold iif its about beening afraid i'll help just slow at first then we will see where it goes ok
2006-07-05 18:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get hurt if you search for these things. it'll suck and you'll wish you never ever even tried to look for love. but in then end, you'll never know what true love is without experiencing the true pain of a lonesome heart. either you put yourself out there or reserve yourself to living in the closet for life. do you wanna be one of those crazy cat ladies?
2006-07-05 18:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by YOU WILL BOW TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
embrace sex let sex take her on a journey to your body and her body and tell her to look at sex as a learning experience every sexual encounter is not the same some are good and bad but with experience sex does get better just take it slow and work your way up
2006-07-05 18:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Twan180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a lesbian maybe you should go out with her and try doing those things with her and see if that would make her open to those things you listed that shes afraid of. If you arnt a lesbian then maybe just try to convince her that those things are shouldnt be afriad of if you chose to be a lez. Or just tell her to go back liking men. Girls having sex is juct wrong...And if she is afriad of love how come she likes girls then.... ask her that.
2006-07-05 18:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by littlegrlsrock 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well try helpping her though experence like give her lots of commintents, help her find other lesbians, that would get her used to all these thing and gether opened up.
2006-07-05 18:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Brooke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a councelor 2 help work out some of the underlying issues.get rid of the old bs so that u can have a happy life.we all carry old baggage that we sometimes need help getting rid of.good luck.
2006-07-05 18:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think u should try to experience some of those things with someone you know and totally trust and maybe they can help u get over your fear
2006-07-05 18:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with it, we are all different and if this is the way she feels then she shouldn't force herself to change.
2006-07-05 18:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋