My bestfriend told me he liked a certain amount of girls before me and now when I see him often all i see is him talking,touching,laughing with these girls and now he tells me he loves me when i try to break with him what do i do? Do i stay with him after 7 months?
2006-07-05 11:32:41 · 24 answers · asked by love89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I love you" is just three ordinary words when they aren't backed up by someones actions. In this case his actions don't support the words he is saying. If he can't respect your relationship enough to not flirt with other girls then why be in the relationship with him. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only and makes you the focus of their flirting.
2006-07-05 11:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting and love are 2 very different things. Some people are just that way and if you cant deal with that then it is proabably best to end the relationship now. However, based on the 7 months you have been together it seems that you really care for him as well so I would suggest just talking abotu it and letting him know that it is bugging you and see if there is a way to remedy the situation rather than just giving up.
2006-07-05 11:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Adam m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either break up with him or accept him for who he is. do you trust this guy? do you think he would act upon the flirting? if you do then it's better that you make the break now. some people have a naturally flirtatious nature and it's merely part of them. if it's something you loved about him then what's changed? if you really cannot abide this kind of behaviour then make the break NOW. He may not change, perhaps cannot change and this will ultimately make you resent him anyway and he'll resent you too in time if he has to sit quietly and hold your hand. flirting is fun as long as you don't act on it; it can be a harmless bit of enjoyment. if you really believe he loves you and he shows it then where's the harm?
2006-07-05 11:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's testing himself and you, to see how far he can go. Tell him you don't like him doing certain things. That being one of them. If he was serious about loving you than he would respect your opinion and feelings. If he doesn't stop break up with him and don't let him guilt trip you back into a relationship with the 'I love you'
2006-07-05 11:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stand his ways...do what you think you have to do. He isn't your husband, so it's either dump him or suffer. You should be with someone who doesn't make you feel confused like that. He thinks he can get away with anything with just the words I love you. If the relationship doesn't feel right to you, be proactive and don't settle for less....otherwise that little bit he gives you right now will shrink to nothing....
2006-07-05 11:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
He may love you, but apparently not enough to be 'true' to you.....so, forget about him.
You are only 17 (if my guess is correct). Any guy that you love now, statistically speaking, you will not be in significant love with, in two years.
Forget about him.
You probably won't be able to build a solid and mature relationship until you are in your 20's anyway.
Take care.
:-)
2006-07-05 11:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by timthinks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen ........ guys are aaaaaaaalways gonna flirt !! no matter what we say , if you arent comfortable with it say something to him , but dont break up just because he's a flirt , now if he is disrespectful to you , then yes i would say ur better off without him , but the best thing is to talk to him , and tell him how you feel
2006-07-05 11:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly you should consider graduating High School before getting involved in these Jerry Springer antics. Find someone else, she is trouble.
2016-03-27 05:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he doesn't really love you because if he did he wouldn't disrespect you by flirting with the other girl
2006-07-05 11:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by LIL T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,first I would confront him a/b it and tell him I didn't like it. Then if he still did it I would tell him that I didn't wanna be wit gim until he could grow up !!
2006-07-05 11:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by suprfreek1217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋