why has my girl changed..?

Question

im 16, my girlfriend used to tell me she loved me non-stop, now she really doesnt. she has an ugly past with guys, and we've been sexually active, but thats not the reason i love her. she says the sex is good. but alot of other girls are after me because im a good guy...what should i do? i know confusing.

Answer 1

experience has taught me to treat her like sh*it. for some reason, majority of girls like it better when you make them feel like you don;'t need them anymore. THEN, they'll be all over you again.

Answer 2

Don't listen to the idiot that said to treat her like ****, only girls that have had some form of abuse in there lives "like" that. I don't know what has happened in her past, or how long you've been together but, she may be feeling like you might hurt her also so she is pulling away before you have the chance. You really need to get her alone and tell her how you really feel about her and that you have noticed a change in her and you want her to know that she can talk to you about ANYTHING without you getting pissed. Yeah sex is great and all, But, NO relationship last without communication and trust above all! Good luck and Keep being the good guy.

Answer 3

Well, one possible reason she stopped saying she loves you is because she doesn't want to de-value the phrase. You should be able to tell that she does by her actions.

If there are girls after you, then show her that she is your only, that is, if she truly is. If you are truly a good guy, there has to be some substantial evidence to your statement. Get my drift?

Typically 99.99999999 percent of the female dating population has had to deal with the ugly face of the male aggression, which masks the face of chivalry. Personally, as a husband and a man, I give 300 percent to keep the enchantment and trust in my wife's heart, because she too has had to deal with some jerks. And typically when women go through that, of course there will be some walls and leery emotions, simply because they don't want to have to get over another jerk.

So, if you are not one of those jerks, then I give credit where it's due. And remember not to lose sight of that.

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Remember, faithfulness is one thing, but keeping the flame blazing is another!!!!

Answer 4

Too be honest when I was 16 my emotions with someone were up and down. When you find someone that you care so much about/love at such a young age it is hard to know what to do with it and what it means. Chances are she might not be the right one for you. Give her the space she needs, if she is falling out of intrest with you its because you guys are young and the dating is something that you are just getting into. If she is going to have a wondering eye dont be the one to get hurt. And like you said you got a lot going for you, so dont waste your time committing to someone who doesnt quite satisfy you. Really at your age you should be out experimenting whatever new things come up(safely)and not worring about so much about what the "girl" is thinking. It does sound like you are a good guy to be caring like this and there are not many good men out there, so think ofyourself as a "treasure" and protect yourself out there, have fun with the people you date at this moment, keep your hard earned money to yourself, and always be a gentleman to woman. The right girl is gonna love you for you and always let you know. So just have fun, I would die to be 16 again! Go out with friends and spend time with family, you have your whole adulthood to deal with realtionships and heataches. So for now Live It Up!!!!!

Answer 5

It's hard to tell why she has changed. Maybe you are just like all the other guys she's been with, having sex with her. Do you really love her or just want to have sex with her? She might not trust guys right now. She needs to met a real net guy who will hold her, listen to her and be there for her.

Answer 6

Not 2 b mean-Just being honest-Its a good possibility that she lost interest in you,or got bored with the relationship.Maybe shes not a ''realationship'' type girl,girls that age want 2 explore their options.B/c school is a big place w/a lot of guys & I'm sure she has other guys hitting on her.But don't feel bad,this might not be the case,u never know.But if it is, theres plenty of nice, pretty girls out there,that won't break your heart.Good luck. :)

Answer 7

First,

Your 16 years old. You young, you have lots to experience.

When I was 16 I thought I loved lots of people. At that age, people change. She probably does love you, however she is young and at the age where a 16 year old girl goes through a lot of changes.

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel.

Remember, Your young, and there is a whole huge ocean full of fish out there ;o)

Answer 8

Sometimes girls get kind of bored with a "good guy". Stupid, I know, but it's the truth. Lay off a little. Make her call you. Play a little hard to get. I'm not saying be mean, just mysterious. Everyone always wants what they can't have. Another good cliche is they don't know what they got until it's gone.

Answer 9

Hmm. I changed after a little while with a guy that i really liked.. I changed because i got tired of being with him all the time, Its like, he was always there, no matter where I was, he was there too. Maybe she just needs some space. Give that to her, but first talk to her about it, if she needs some time alone, then give it to her..good luck!

Answer 10

First you're TOO YOUNG FOR SEX! Second ignore that jerk who gave the first answer!

Sixteen year old girls are way too young for sexual activity. And so are you! You both can live quite happily without bedroom scenes! Or in your case...backseat scenes.

You both need to graduate from school, go to college or learn a trade. Then after you're settled in a career or trade, then look to getting married. High school is way too young for "serious" relationships.

Answer 11

Wow boy you are in deep! Well sit down with her and talk with her about your relationship and try and find out why she is treating you like crap! And annother thing you still have your whole life infront of you don't I MEAN DON'T mess up your life by a girl that doesnt appreciate you! Best advice CONSENTRATE ON SCHOOL!!!