I would just like some ideas, suggestions, some feedback on what to do to get a girl to like me even though she doesn't. I've charmed her plenty of times, and I don't know if I should leave her be or chase her. What should I do?
2006-07-05 11:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by Man_With_No_Name 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, stop it. Be a man. She doesn't love you back. Why would you love someone who doesn't love you back. You want to know how to get her? Date other chicks who you think would make her jealous. Find out who she doesn't like, and go date her. Dating is one big competition for girls. Not with us, but with other girls. They are all in competition with eachother. You, as the boyfriend, are the trophy. The point of the game for girls is to see who can get the best trophy. That's why they tell other girls that they are dating a doctor, or football player, or musician, or any other desirable guy. It's all a game. You have to learn how to play it.
2006-07-05 11:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Justin B 2 · 19⤊ 2⤋
I have noticed that guys are definitely creatures, my friend. Guys... they like a girl... they try to make a move or start conversation or something... but girls... sometimes they dont even know if they like a guy until he starts talking to them and they find out he is smart or funny or has a nice accent or is really respectful to women...
bro... take it from me... for girls, the way a guy looks is not everything. how many times u seen a fine looking woman walking down the street with a man who looks like his name is "chuckles"? yeah... a whole load of times i bet!
So... she has not noticed u...may mean u are not much of a looker... dont feel bad. If u have the right personality... all that will not matter much once u get talking.
Now... how to get the girl to notice u? if u are a funny guy, then humour is the way. What u need is something funny to start the convo... this is what i suggest (this is patiented by the way so i give u and only u to use it once!)
1. wait for the girl to have a drink in her hand... lets say a soda.
2. u go up to her and say "what that you got in your hand?"... see, that is a really simple question and u got to be cool about it... dont act like you reading from a cue card... be cool.. like "what u holding, girl?" the girl part can be important depending on what kinda guy u are and what kinda girl she is.
3. she say "a soda"
4. you lean in ever so slightly like you could not hear what she is saying and u say "what u say, girl?"... again, be careful with the use of girl and just be cool...
5. she says "a soda!"
6. u act like she was offering u the soda and u are like "no thanks, girl. mighty nice of u to offer, but i can get my own drinks!" u got to be cool though... hey... u start chuckling ever so slightly, she will start chuckling ever so slightly. Take my word for it!
u do that... u make the girl laugh the whole night... snaaaapppp... its as good as gold!
oh wait a sec... just reread the question... u initially said the girl "doesn't notice u"... however, later on u said u charmed her plenty of times! i do not think those two statements are compatable... ever u tried charming her or u didn't... dont see how u could try charming her and she ignores u!
in any case, make the girl laugh and she will be ur friend. u dont want to be with a girl that u made like u... also, maybe romantic relationships are not for u right now...
no one steal my drink joke above... its mine and was to be used by this guy one only and only one time.
peace!
2006-07-05 18:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by jimjwalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've given her hints that you like her, she may be doing one of two things: ignoring you rather than hurt your feelings by telling you she's not interested, or playing hard-to-get. Either way you're better off not going after her.
Don't try to charm her. Instead get to know her, be her friend, find out what she likes and dislikes. If she likes to play games, though, you should stay away.
2006-07-05 18:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not attracted to you... you can't do anything about it. If you start chasing after her, you're going to be known as the stalker. Don't do it! Move on... find someone else. There's plenty out there.
2006-07-05 18:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows how much you like her,therefore she knows she can have you whenever she wants you and thats no fun. Girls like to know that their liked, but not so much that there's not a challenge. Show interest in another girl while she is around and see how she reacts. Next time show interest but don't let them know that your that easy to get.
2006-07-05 18:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by omigirrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may like you, or maybe not. Single her out, only talk to her one time in a conversation. If she seems interested...go on with that feeling. If not, well move on.
2006-07-05 18:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by fakebrokenbones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, get her to notice u. then go for it i guess. I was just playing around, saying hi to random ppl, and even i got this guy who didn't noticed me's email. Then yeah things go from there I guess. First, get her attention. Then don't screw up =P
2006-07-05 18:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it has been a while and she hasn't noticed you then move on!! u can't make someone like you. Stop playing around and tell her how you feel, bro.
2006-07-05 18:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Antics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like playing hard to get. Tell her, flatter her- maybe she's waiting, we don't like making first moves
2006-07-05 18:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chase her what are you waiting for!
2006-07-05 18:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋