is it okay to make a move on a guy after having a drunken fling with his twin brother? i know his twin is not interested in me in that way now, and nor am i. however i am finding myself increasingly attracted to his borther and he and i have been flirting a great deal recently. everyone keeps tellingme he fancies me as much as i fancy him but i am not sure if it is okay to do anything about it.
2006-07-05 10:48:54 · 19 answers · asked by queenjoef 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What? Is this the only family in town?
2006-07-05 10:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twin brothers talk about everything. Are you sure the one twin didn't just told his brother about you and the other one is looking for the same drunken fling?
2006-07-05 10:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are sick... How will you like if you have a twin sister, this guy fling with your sister cause his drunk and then he decide to make a move on you? Now if you like things that way then answer this question. Do you think he is going to take you seriously? Will you take your self seriously? EFIL
2006-07-05 10:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is flirting, twins like to play these games, both brothers doing the same girl ya know, remember you will never be as close to them as they are too each other and honestly i don't think the other brother would get into something serious and legit with you knowing that you did his twin (and trust me he knows). they'll play those games all through their lives, but when they get serious about a girl its hands off to the other one.
2006-07-05 10:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you know for sure that he likes you and he's not just flirting with you because of what his brother has said about you (if you know what I mean)then it's fine. But shouldn't you be a little leary since they are twins, probably very close & share EVERYTHING......
2006-07-05 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by omigirrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be okay but I think the brother should tell his twin that he has been with you and that you were both drunk and didn't realize what had happened till it was too late. That you are not interested in one another. Then you tell him that you are truely interested in him(the one u like).
2006-07-05 10:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by sis71646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would speak to the twin that u had the drunken fling with if u still talk to him that u really like his brother see how he reacts if its good then ask him to speak to him for u! chances r they have already spoke about u.
2006-07-05 13:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the guy you fancy know you had a fling with his bro? If he does and doesn't care.. then I would say you're good to go!
2006-07-05 10:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe McIntosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are really interested tell him that his brother means nothing to you and that you have a fancy in him and if he would like to go out with you.
2006-07-05 10:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the brother you likes knows what happened and has no problem with it then it is ok
2006-07-05 10:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by DesertGirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋