i came home one day and found my daughter in the house with a boy. what should i do??? im not sure if she did anything wrong... what should i think???what should i do???
2006-07-05 10:44:14 · 11 answers · asked by Alexandria G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ummm....if you are freaking out about that, you're gonna shi* yourself when she eventually has sex. Don't get all uptight about it and act weird, or you'll lose your credibility. That's what my mom did years and years ago. If you make EVERYTHING taboo - even hanging out with a guy in the house (although I suppose they shouldn't be alone), then she's going to just think that you are unreasonable and illogical.
2006-07-05 10:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her that you don't like nor want boys in the house. Ask her what happened, if anything. Explain things to her, let her know what is unacceptable behavior. Let her know there will be a punishment for the unacceptable behavior. Communicate with her and hopefully, she understand and you both can talk.
2006-07-05 17:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER.. and with a nice attitude.. dont just be like " what were you doing with that boy in this house".. just ask who was here in this house that day and whats his name and whats up with them
2006-07-05 17:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sad Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and let her know that you love her and care about her!and tell her that you would appreciate it if she waited until you were home to have boys as company!make it a rule even!and keep the communication between you and her open!
2006-07-05 17:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by cyndi b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well How old is your daugther?
You need to talk to her, set some rules for when you are not home, have confidence on each other. the most important thing to have communication with her.
2006-07-05 17:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by fernyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, dont yell or get mad because that will just push her away and she ont talk to u. If she doesnt wanna talk about it, then leave it alone, she'll come to you if she wants to talk. If she says that nothing happened, then trust her, if she says she didnt then she didnt, if you dont trust her, then she wont want to tell you anything.. Trust me, im like that with my mom!
2006-07-05 18:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
LISTEN to her though as well. Don't yell.....just sit with her and talk. Tell her what you think they MAY have done and then ask her what they did. Remind her of what can happen if things go too far.
2006-07-05 17:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chech her room for anything...suspicios. sorry i can't spell. Look at the way she's acting. if she seems unusually happy/perky...then you might think something is up. Just ask her!
2006-07-05 17:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her not to do that if she does it again beat her a**
2006-07-05 17:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know but talk to her
2006-07-05 17:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋