i only had sex once in my life which was in january...a HUGE mistake! but now im craving for more and am about to grab any guy thats into me...
...is this a problem or should i just go off and get some?
2006-07-05 10:43:25 · 20 answers · asked by Kristine D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you just hit a hormonal surge. Nothing really wrong with that, but it IS bad for your judgement, and grabbing any guy is a poor idea -- Johnny Depp is taken, I understand, and so are several other possible lucky choices.
Whether it's a good idea to take pot luck when it's only your second time around is a tricky question. Just as an opinion, I'd say not. Can't tell you what to do about it, I'm afraid. The Boy Scouts prescribe cold showers, but that's for guys -- don't know what would work for a girl.
If by any wonderful chance you know an experienced older man who can be trusted to just cuddle and pet you without Going All The Way, that might help. Women are apparently able to let off excess steam by being kissed and caressed by a dear friend, without having to be penetrated or brought off. About an hour of play should help you. But finding a guy that can be trusted that far is going to be tough. Us boys get steamed up when we find a pretty girl letting us play with her delicacies.
2006-07-05 11:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, my advice is first to resist the temptation if you feel that having sex last time was mistake perhaps first finding out why you feel it was a mistake is a good start. As far as the feeling I think it's merely a result of your body reacting to the pleasure you felt, it's a natural reaction to feelings you get when you have a sexual experience. In great need masturbation would probably be best to ensure you're not forced to make another decision you may regret later. When you find someone you are ready to have sex with be sure you and he agrees that the time is right...then you will have a wonderful experience sharing your bodies and passion.
2006-07-05 10:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by swordsmanoflight21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the honesty. It's only a problem if you let it be. As long as you're practicing safe sex with these guys, there's nothing wrong with it. You might end up emotionally hurt or have regret after but it all comes with giving yourself to someone who you don't really have anything with but sex. It depends on if you can get over that.
2006-07-05 10:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like any addiction, you can control it or it can control you. Right now it sounds like the sex is winning, if you just grab any guy you will have many more regrets than just having sex too early, best thing you can do is learn to masterbate well or go out and buy a vibrator/dildo
2006-07-05 10:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, because that is what a SLUT is.
Same thing happened to me, I ****** my ex when I was 18, and we broke up for a year.... man, I got horny as hell (as you are right now). But then, I found Miss Right, and I am in love, and the sex is awesome.... totally worth the wait. Wait for Mr. Right, and it will feel so much better, sex is always better with someone u love, so u dont hav to worry about STD's and pregnancy from a man who u do not know well!
2006-07-05 11:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you really need to talk to someone about this. Sex is nothign to play around with. I wish I never started. Once u start its hard to quit, but you can't just have sex with anyone. I've only been with one guy (my bf). It's tempting all the time but it's not good for you. Talk with someone and plz don't do it without protection.
2006-07-05 10:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by duke baby! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just sleep with anyone, never use sex carelessly. If the craving is that bad, invest a vibrator or a pocket rocket...they always get the job done! (Sometimes better then men anyway!) lol
2006-07-05 10:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was a mistake last time you should wait a wile so find something that you are intrested in and roll with it so it will get you mind off sex.
2006-07-05 10:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel this way, but don't just go get any guy, wait till you have one you love and if not then use a vibrator. Grabbing any guy can be a little dangerous!
2006-07-05 10:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. There is a lot of nasty stuff out there. Just be cautious and protect yourself. Do you have fun with yourself? It might pass the time until the right person comes along.
2006-07-05 10:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋