Me and my sister dont get along but i am really worried for her b/c she cuts herself it scares me i want to help her but i dont noe how. Please help me.
2006-07-05 10:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by sexi_angel63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to intervene... Even if she tells you to stay out of it, DONT. I used to cut myself too and yeah, it helps with the stress and stuff at first, but it only gets worse, if she wants the attention, then give it to her because it might lead to something as bad as killing herself.. If it doesnt help, then tell an adult or someone else that might be able to help.... good luck
2006-07-05 10:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it might be hard but sweetie u need to learn how to communicate better with her. t3ll her how u feel n y u feel that way n if u finally think that u cant handel or help her control it. Ur going to have to tell some1 u can trust... N to keep her 4rm doing it . It might be a good idea if she always had a rubber band on her risk.n every time she has the urge to do it. she could just pull the rubber band and let go n just keep doing it until she feels better. Im sorry if u dont understand what i just said
2006-07-05 10:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by 3ly L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. She needs more help than you can give her. You have to get a trusted adult involved in this. Your sis might get mad at first, but she'll relax when she gets the help she needs and she sees what a great sister she has who loves her and wants to get her help. Good luck!
2006-07-05 10:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self injury is the sign of a MUCH larger problem. She needs to get professional help. Avoid, at all costs, taking her to a church or some other charlatan. She needs a psycologist and she needs it NOW.
2006-07-05 10:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Wylie Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell anybody who can stop her, like the police or a doctor, and it doesn't matter if she tells you she doesn't like you for doing it, you are helping her and saving her.... Please, do what you know is right, she might not realize how much you love and care for her now but she will when she gets help and has a healthy mind...
2006-07-05 10:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can help her by not fighting. It's hard i know, but sometimes just let things slip by. Talk to your sister and ask her why she's reacting like that.
2006-07-05 10:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Paru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, buy her a journal. and tell her every time something happens that's bad, and she wants to cut herself, tell her to write about it instead. this way instead of hurting herself, she can hurt those who have made her feel this way (by writing about it, only!) that way she doesn't have a need to cut herself anymore. she can cut them with her words and thoughts.
2006-07-05 10:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by dorian_gay82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you and her? my moms a therapist and she's helped a handful of teenagers who cut so i recommend you tell your mom somehow or let it "slip" on "accident". your sister will thank you later...
2006-07-05 10:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to intervene. she could really be damaged your self. it is a cry for attention so you have to give it to her before worse things happen like actual suicide.
2006-07-05 10:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Suarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her see a therapist
2006-07-05 10:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~Gothic Beauty~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋