what should i do????? please help me?

Question

i call my friend that i like and he always has to go
and the longest we've talked is 15 minuts
im always the one calling him

and i wont to talk to him but i wont him to atleast call me

i dont know what to do

because when i walk with him after school i cant realy get into a conversation with him
or even on the phone

but i have so much to say i cant say it

and my mind slips and i lose my train of thought

does anyone have any advice????

Answer 1

Guys hate talking on the phone. My husband yaps and yaps in person but when I call him from work he just wants to go watch TV. Just one of those funny differences between men and women.

Answer 2

I'm sorry young one but it sounds like this guy probably is'nt that intrested. I know it sucks and it's probably not what you wanted to hear but if you can't talk to the boy for more than 15min on the phone and can't get the boy to say something when you two are walking home after school......Then more than likely, the feeling is mutual if you know what I mean.
If you need to.....Get out a some paper and write down what it is you really want this guy to know.
Keep it short, simple and direct. ( I say that cause you obviously only have a 15 min window on the phone ) Read to him what you have on your paper but don't tell him you wrote anything down.
Most importantly hun, be honest and be yourself. Let him know you like him. Let him know you want to be his g/f. If he says yes then you've got a super quiet one on your hands and that can actually be annoying.
If he says no then you have to respect his decision and get on with your life. You're still in school for cryin out loud! I can't even begin to tell you how many hundreds of guys you're gonna come across from now until you get my age ( 26 ).
Basically what i'm tellin you young one is......If this guy does'nt feel the way you do, it's ok.
You're life will not end. And when you get to be my age you'll be like...... I can't beilive I even liked that guy what was I thinking!!!
I hope this helps hon. Take care. Everything will be ok.

Answer 3

well..one of the reasons could be is that he doesn't like u that way..u know like a bf/gf thing..and he doesn't want to lead u on..so he tries to avoid talkin to you that much on the phone or soemthing..he doesn't call you and stuff..that might give you the wrong msg. the other reason could be that he is the shy type? he probly likes you but he doesn't know what to say..how to let it out..he's probly like you..his mind slips and loses his train of thought..if he's the shy type..ur going to have to make the move and talk to him and make him get rid of his shyness..make him laugh..joke around..this and that. but ya..so it could be that he's not interested in a bf/gf type thing or he's just shy..that's just my opinion : )
there's only one way to find out..you have soo much to say..why not say it..you'll live ur life full of regrets and wondering "what if"..i might ruin ur friendship if you do..but hey..theres only one way to find out..but if u guys are good enough friends..you guys can look past that and still be friends..it will feel wierd still..atleast for me it will. just let him know how u feel. i know..its easier said than done.

Answer 4

start letting him call you. if he really wants to talk he will call you. if every time you call him and he tell you to call back, maybe he don't want to talk. but you have to give him a chance to miss you and want to call you. he don't call you because he is used to you keep calling him. so i think if you stop calling him, he will start calling you and wondering why you don't call him no more.

Answer 5

stop! spend some time alone, chat indepth discuss your concerns

Answer 6

use E-Mail, that way, he has no excuse of, he has to go.