I have a serious beautiful beach body,but i've been lazy lately,will that change the blessing?

Question

Since my boyfriend since October 2004 left me on June 3,I've been unactive for a month.But on my free time It's pretty hard thinking on what happened,I just wanna watch TV most of the time instead of going out alot like i used to.I just eat raspas(what's considered the "ice cream" in Mexico),nachos con chile con carne,enchiladas,fattening food period.Believe me on the street
live in is filled with food stands,etc.I get tempted.But anyways I'm still in shape,is that an excuse to be lazy.My new boyfriend s**ks big time,he is annoying and happens to be my neighbor,I want my Gabriel back.I think it is more than a physical problem for me too.

Why do you say conceited b**ch?
Answer my question pendeja.

MK ULTRA-shut your mouth clown-i happen to know that.You can't judge my
motives because we're two different people.You don't know my life,It's because of God that I'm still alive.Wouldn't they like to smoke you up.I had to let that out...

Answer 1

Conceited?

Allow me to amend my comments since I seem to have offended you...

Your problem has to do with your boyfriend and whatever has been going on in your life... which I completely sympathize with... however, what does this have to do with you having a "serious beautiful beach body", it makes you seem like your priorities are all mixed up...

Truly I meant no offense, but to answer your question, you are going through a bit of depression, which is normal in this situation... Why did your boyfriend leave you? Are you still friends? If he is meant to be in your life, he will.. in the meantime, hang out with your friends, tell yourself that you know how valuable you are and that you are worth it.. if he doesn't appreciate you, he doesn't deserve you...

And why are you leading that poor neighbor on.... let him go so he can truly be happy with someone who appreciates him...

And last of all, if you cant take the answer, dont ask the question... its childish to resort to name calling....

Answer 2

You need to give yourself a kick in the *ss and get over this guy. Pretty soon you will be a chubby, depressed couch potatoe. Get out there and enjoy life. Go to the beach with your friends or other things. The more you let yourself get accustomed to stuffing your face and sitting around the house, the sadder you will feel and the harder it will be to get back out in the world. I know this must be heartbreaking for you, that is why its important to be around people and laugh and it will start to get easier getting through each day. You don't need this guy to live. You've made it through every day for a month right? So kiss those lonly days and nights good bye and go meet some new people.

Answer 3

you need help, see a therapist. grow up. so your gab is gone, oh my god, stop the press..... should you just waste your life away because of that? do you have any idea what real trama people go through every day? losing a child, a brother, a sister, a friend, anything along those lines? you are wallowing over a guy who dumped you by going on a disgusting food binge. and on top of that, wasting time with your neighbor because you don't want to be lonely. do you now understand why most men have no respect for women? you need to start taking care of yourself and stop living for a man. go live your life for you, trust me, you'll enjoy life much better.

Answer 4

You sound depressed to me,I'm familiar with your actions.Eating
food for comfort, you don't really like your new boyfriend which could of been rebound from your loss. Your trying to fill voids in your life with the wrong things. Getting out helps depression,even just for a walk.Forget this new guy if your really unhappy with him.
Your body will go down hill with your changes from what you used to do.If you don't use it you loose it.I hope you cheer up soon.You will get over Gabriel but it takes time and effort.

Answer 5

Your first boyfriend probably left you because there wasn't enough room in your life for him, seeing how your swollen head took up all the space. And if you continue being lazy then you'll push your neighbor away too. Most likely with your fat ***. It will catch up to you. Don't let any one get you down. Life goes on. And it doesn't have to be with your neighbor. Get rid of him! If your sick of him now then just imagine five years from now.And stop dwelling on your ex. Just because he left you doesn't mean that's its your fault. There are too many guys in this world than to be stuck worrying about one.

Answer 6

Well I think you shouldn't be lazy just because your ex left you, your motivation should be yourself and how you enjoy having a great body. Another thing is that you shouldn't say that your new boyfriend sucks big time because if he does then you shouldn't be with him and you should be single. I don't think that your figure will change much either, you are probably still very sexy! Good luck and if you need any motivation, let me know!

Answer 7

You need to get over your ex and on with your life as hard as that may sounds. And if you don't like the new one, get rid of him too. It sucks to go through a breakup, but you need to get back to being yourself or you will end up gaining weight. Instead of sitting around eating and all that, go work out, believe me, you will be able to walk away from it easier if you are more active. ...good luck.

Answer 8

Get out there and stop thinkin about the past, it will do you no good because it is pointless to think about the past you know? The problem is that you are using the depression as your excuse to keep you down below.

Answer 9

get out there and sex it up with as many hombres as possible. Good exercise and the new guy won't want to be with you anymore. Solves both your problems and it's fun in the process.

Or, you can just stop eating like a pig, work on yourself and be happy. It's up to you.

Answer 10

talk about a guy running your life..GOSH! You know, you had a life before this guy didn't you?
Show him that he has no power over you! Be sad...and then get over it! If you're not happy with your boyfriend...dump him and go have fun and look for other interesting people...do not dwell on what you have lost or can't have.