My boyfriend and I went out for 6 months or so. It was the greatest time of my life (so far). I was so happy. Then he started to ignore me, and he wouldn't say anything when I called him, just grunted answers to my questions. After awhile, I confronted him on this, but he didn't say much of anything. I broke up with him and he was extremely shocked. Then I went out with another guy, but game back after only two weeks to my first boyfriend. About a month later, we broke up again. It's been 1 year now and I find myself trying to think of excuses to call him. What should I do? Please, put yourself in my situation and answer the way you would want to be answered. Thanks.
2006-07-05 10:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by Jane B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't call him..
Ex's are Ex's for a reason, people can't change unless they really want to.. he obviously didn't want to or he would've done it the first time you got back with him.
Find someone who's worth your time and energy you'll be putting into the relationship.
2006-07-05 10:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how that feels. Get out whilst you are able to. all the failings yo point out ends up in different problems lots better. which contain abuse.bodily, mentally or the two. If i've got been you i might opt to stay in for the night without him. i might call him and enable him understand you're actually not assets and if he can not take care of that oh properly. No women persons merits to be dealt with like that. good success with what ever you confirm. playstation they say they might substitute however the fulfillment fee of it fairly is fairly low.
2016-12-08 16:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by dobard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he was comfortable with your relationship, but you wanted more. So...maybe it would help you in the future if you realized that it is natural in every relationship for it to move from excitement to comfort (which isn't nearly as exciting). I've been married for almost 5 years, and I'd say that if my wife divorced me for grunting the occasional answer (though listen) it would have been over long ago. Are you sure he was ignoring you? Anyhow, If you're still really interested talk to him about it, otherwise move on.
2006-07-05 10:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on with your life forget about him! There is plenty of time to find sum one else! If you feel the urge to call him focus your intentions to sumthing else! Get sumthing to do to fill your empty spaces in your diary! Like example go jogging or go to gym or go for a walk in the park! In due time it would be like your dog that died 6 months ago! In other words you will eventually forget about him and is no longer desperate to call him!
2006-07-05 10:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by etienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u brake up with him the second time... if u did i think u need to find out wats going on with yourself first...does he still ignore you? if he does then maybe its better that you two broke up... maybe u should just be friends... and thats better than not seeing eachother at all right?
call him and tell him u still want to be friends... i hope this helps and good luck!
2006-07-05 10:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Candystripedlegs93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a reason to call him. Give him a call and let him know that you wanted to see how he was doing. Let him know his been on your mind and wanted to see what his been up to this past year. The worst he can do is tell you he has a gf.
2006-07-05 10:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look it just seems that you love him but he doesnt love you
look since he is acting the way he does i say forget about him
just look for a guy that you will be happy with forever
2006-07-05 10:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the QUESTION IS ARE YOU READY TO TALK TO HIM?
if your ready to talk to him..why not call him..just make sure that you are totally ready...READY TO HEAR EVERYTHING FROM HIM... IT'S BEEN A WHILE NOW.. SO WHAT ABOUT YOU FIND OUT THAT HIS DATING SOMEONE. IS THIS OKAY FOR YOU MEANS NO PAIN.
IF YOUR ANSWER IS "YES"
FORGET ABOUT IT...JUST CALL HIM IF THE TIME IS RIGHT!!
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-05 10:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on and off bf is a red neon sign of "bad bf". move on. get a hobby.
2006-07-05 10:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by D L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋