shes only 15
2006-07-05 10:00:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
well, if i was you, i would support her and make sure she is comforted. because there is gong to be a lot of people whos going to look at her and think she's crazy. so you should stand by her side and be there for her when she needs it.
2006-07-05 10:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all remember that God loves us all, and not one person in this world is any better or worse than another. It is going to be a rough road for both of you. From judgemental people who think they are better than others, to morning sickness, to labor and delivery and dealing with the father she is going to need friends, and guidance. If you go to a good church who remembers that Jesus died on the cross to show us ALL how much he loves us, and that everyone needs to be shown love, invite her, don't try to act like you know what she is going through, because it will be harder for her than anyone who has never been 15 and pregnant can possibly imagine. Just show her love and patience, and respect.
2006-07-05 12:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing you can do when your best friend is pregnant is give them support. Take them to a health clinic where they can learn all their options. Try to help guide her to do good things during her pregnancy to not harm the baby. You can get her information on the internet by just typing in pregnancy. There are tons of arcticles on do's and don'ts and options and things like that. Even hotlines can answer questions.
2006-07-05 10:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to support her. She is going through a tough time right now. Both mental and physical. She will need the support of her best friend. When she realizes all that you have done for her she will be eternally grateful.
2006-07-11 06:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have to deal with it? If shes your best friend you accept it support her choices and move on with your lives. You imply that it is somehow your problem but really if your close you can work it out. It wont affect YOU all that much.
2006-07-05 12:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by binglejells2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was in high school my best friend thought she was pregnant, we were freshman, what i did was, be there with a shoulder to cry on and I told her that No matter what I would love her and she would always be my best Friend, Luckily she wasn't but If she would have been I would have been there for her. and that's the only thing you can do.
2006-07-05 10:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really her best friend, you will not tell her what to do, but stand by her and support whatever decision she chooses to make. She is your friend, and what she needs is to know that you care. I'm sure if you made a mistake, she would be there for you.
2006-07-07 02:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be a good friend and be there for her! She may need advice on what to tell her parents and what to do about the baby...whether to keep it or give it up for adoption. At least you can see first hand the consequences of unprotected sex and hopefully you will make better choices!
2006-07-05 10:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not allot you can do besides make sure she gets the help she needs. You can try to support her but there are limits of what you can do. Just listen to her and if you think she is going to do something dangerous tell someone you trust.
2006-07-05 10:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. She will really need you right now. I am now 26, but got pregnant with my first child at 16, and my friends were there for me and it meant the world to me.
2006-07-08 03:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋