2006-07-05 09:58:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls use guys as often as guys use girls and it is not necessarily right or wrong. If the girl or guy allows themself to be used then you really cannot blame the other person.
Responsibly, nobody should take advantage of somebody else on a frequent basis but you should be able to "use" your friends on occassion when you really need help. Just don't go overboard.
2006-07-05 10:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because will still live in a man's world as they say!! Men think its great to use women and have a good laugh about it, It makes them feel more of a man if they use and abuse but with women we are supposed to have feelings and emotions and if we use men we are classed as sl**s, slappers etc.. women are meant to fall in love and stuff even though most of us have evolved from the 50's generation we have equal rights now so i dont see a problem in not having feelings for a man and just having fun not getting serious!!!
2006-07-05 10:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lyniroquai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the society we live in that is the way it is. We men (years ago I assume) realize females are the stronger sex and have better attributes than us (sort of) and fear that our "manhood" will be taken away. As a result, we bring you down (mentally) so we can be on top. You are great at seduction and getting what you want when you want it. We are sloppy at it and know it. As a result, because you are much better, we bring you down an call you, "ho's" and "sluts" so you can look bad and then we can do (sloppy by the way) and look good and known as a "pimp" or "playa." I hope that answers your question.
2006-07-05 10:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by bobes817 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all using anyone is dead wrong. Second guys do not use women and women do not use men. Both sexes allow it to happen and don't take responsibility for their own actions or lack therof. Everyday we teach people how to treat us and they act accordingly. Look in the mirror, that's why. OK
2006-07-05 10:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys think it is ok for them to do it. Just as long as they are getting something out of it. But once a girl does it guys think it is wrong because they arent getting anything out of it. but its not right to use someone because you hurt yourself and the other person.
2006-07-05 10:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by freakincagedotcom88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not OK for a guy to use girls, but I know what you mean most guys do it, but if a guy use you then it's OK to get even and use him.
2006-07-05 10:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not ok for a guy to use a girl, what gave you that impression? But at the same time, you really shouldn't be wanting to use a guy.
2006-07-05 09:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is why do you beleive its ok for guys to use girls? Using another human being is never ok.
2006-07-05 10:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Earl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, it's just not comfortable, because most girls don't use guys. Besides, the world isn't fair and you can't argue with that.
2006-07-05 10:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by LoveQuestionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a Guy He Does not see that If He Uses you It hurts Just as much if you would do it to him.Guys just are immune to how we feel if they Use or cheat on us! Honestly Most guys Dont Care.
2006-07-05 10:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by YourOldestFriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋