if i get mad at her i go up to my room, she soon will come up there but then i'll speak my mind to her cuz it's the only time i can. and she will till me to be qiuet, i no why "cuz she doesn't want her boyufriend to hear me crying cuz of her, and doesn want him to leave her" she will till me that she loves me but i don't know if it is true. she says that she buys me clothes, put a roof above my head, and have food. Is that love and does my mom even love me?
2006-07-05 09:42:25 · 51 answers · asked by Jmeシ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-07-05 09:51:59 · update #1
yes she does
2006-07-05 09:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter what you do or say your Mom will always love you. I've been the daughter, and now I am the Mom. I have 3 boys. There is nothing you can say or do that will stop her from loving you.
Parent's may not always listen as much as you want them too, and they may jump to conclusions before you have finished explaining, but we're learning too. Parents sometimes make mistakes.
When you and your Mom have your differences, give her sometime, then go to her(don't wait for her to come to you) when she's by herself without her boyfriend being around and talk to her.
Sometimes a Mom's life gets hectic with work, takiing are of the house, paying the bills, taking care of our kids, and all the little things that happen in between the Important ones.
Don't ever doubt your Mom not loving you, that is something that never goes away.
2006-07-05 09:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by hehena1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could send you to relatives, or put you in a government facility. She could leave you without the food, clothes, or roof over your head too. So, I'd say she loves you but has a problem with the way she's showing you. She should be given a chance to be happy too, but this boyfriend should be told that "her child" will always come first, because until you're grown according to the state, she's responsible for your well being. Don't shorten your days on earth by disrespecting your Mom.
2006-07-05 09:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is always going to be there. A boy friend might be gone tomorrow. I bet she feels safe that you aren't going to leave her, but doesn't feel the same about B/F. You sound young, don't look into these kind of issues too much. In time you will get better at solving these kinds of things on your own. Even if your mom doesn't love you , you know that she cares since she is feeding you and so on.
2006-07-05 09:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by cancerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mom loves u and the only reason that she is acting this way is cuz she finally found someone that she truely love and she probably want to give him a good impression. u need to give her some time to let her met all of her needs but at the same time try to talk to her what ur needs are and also try to spent some quality time with ur mom. have u ever wonder how hard it is to raise a child by urself so give her a break and talk to and try not to lash out at her.
2006-07-05 09:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by azn_head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your Mom loves you. I am a mother, and I am sure that my daughter ask the same question a lot because well I am a distant person. I use to ask the same thing of my Mom bc of your same reasons and then years later I found out that she was abused by her boyfriend. So do we as Mom's love our children, more that we even know some time.
2006-07-05 09:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your Mother loves you. She is doing the best she can for you, even if you feel otherwise. Talk to another family member. Maybe they can sympathize with you and find ways to look at things a little differently. If not a family member, try a school counselor.
2006-07-05 09:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your mom loves you just because you don't get material things it doesn't mean she doesn't. She right you have a roof over your head, food to eat, clothes to wear. If she didn't want you she would have given you up a long time ago.
2006-07-05 09:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~Genie~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your Mom does love you. Mothers have a tough job. When you hurt, they hurt. Show your Mom some respect. Don't be telling her off. Treat her as you would have her treat you. You may not understand why your Mom does or says the things she does, but believe me, she's only doing what is best for you!
2006-07-05 09:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by B Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY MOM LOVES THEIR CHILDREN, NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!
What you want is her hugs, isn´t it?
Right now she´s in a new relation and she´s afraid that her boyfriend could leave her, that´s why she´s frightened.
Whenever you can, embrace her, kiss her, and tell her how much you love her, I´m sure she´ll do the same thing with you.
HOPE YOU TWO GET ALONG.
2006-07-05 09:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of parents think by buying their kids material things they feel that they are showing love. I think your mom does love you with all her heart she just can't express it with emotion. She probably feels that when she buys you things that will solve problems. I think maybe you should have a sit down talk with her and tell her that you would like her to show you love emotionally and not with the material things in life.
2006-07-05 09:50:35 · answer #11 · answered by Lucky J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋