I'm a girl and have these wierd feelings. I see these pretty women on TV or in real life and I keep thinking about them. these arent the people considered gorgeous on like MTV and VH1, but I consider them beautiful. These are people like Jennifer Morrison. I think about them and I kind of want to be next to them. I don't know what it is. Is it normal to feel this way (as i an 'growing up')?
2006-07-05 09:39:57 · 29 answers · asked by fromnowandend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to practice a little thought stoppin', girlie.
When Miss Morrison, comes on the screen, close your
eyes. Focus only on Mr. Laurie, Mr. Epps, Mr. Spencer (that shouldn't be too hard) or Mr. Leonard. K? K.
The feeling is normal, but unless you want to become a lesbian,
stop the thoughts before you can't turn them around. Fantasy is
okay, just try to be into males, missy. Peace.
2006-07-05 16:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't like to use the word normal.
I prefer the word "natural."
It is Natural to have these feelings.
Irregardless of what the media or ANYONE says about her, I want to be next to Chyna-the wrestler-And I'm kinda done growing up. It's a mix between fascination, attraction, curiousity and admiration.
But I've had time to figure this stuff out. So will you.
It's natural to have questions about the feelings you are experiencing. I'd say go with it.
Some advice: Try not to listen to negative people who are very unsupportive of your feelings.
Because fighting your thoughts/feelings will do more damage than good.
2006-07-05 10:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal. You admire them and want to get to know them, perhaps you want to be like them and find out why they are like they are. Boys go through similar things with sports stars and cowboys, etc. Its a psuedo-crush or a "false crush" its not real love, but it is REAL admiration. You should realize that this is normal and it is the reason the people become Movie Stars and famous. If other people didn't "feel" something about them, no one would care what happened to them, would they?
2006-07-05 09:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that u want to inspire or looking for an inspiration by choosing Jennifer Morrison to be ur role model and that's perfectly fine,everybody needs inspiration in their life.But if u're attracted to them in a "sexual" way,then that is not normal.
2006-07-06 00:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, thinking about any person in that way is normal and a wonderful thing. Women are beautiful creatures, no matter what they look like. My husband thinks I'm beautiful and that works for me. I suggest you try not to be scared of your feelings, and try to understand yourself a little better. It sounds to me like you are just learning how to be you. Learn how to do you and then explore these feelings. But don't try to be something you are not, that never works and tends to hurt more than heal.
2006-07-05 13:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Pilar L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want to be like people we admire. And normal to want to be around these people. To get to know the real person - who they really are.
Unfortunately - we are usually disappointed when we meet these people and see what they really are.
Hey - go ahead and look at them. This is something you will do all your life. Soon - when you are a little older - perhaps you'll grow quite fond of certain male actors.
I like body builders!
2006-07-05 09:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. It's possible you look up to these women. You see they have a successful career and perhaps you find them attractive in some way because you admire something about them. There's nothing odd about that. We all have role models, weather we see them as such or not. And our need to be close to those who influence us is paramount.
It's possible that these women you admire even have similar facial features or physical characteristics which you identify with or it could be their personality which may be like your own or something your trying to build yourself from.
2006-07-05 10:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls all tend to get some type of "experimental" feelings growing up or maybe you are finding who you are.Maybe you like them because you identify with them not necessarily because you have any sexual feelings towards them,even that is ok never let anyone tell you otherwise.
2006-07-05 12:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to admire beauty, even if it is someone only you consider attractive. Just give yourself permission not to get all freaked out . Relax, and quit worrying over what are probably just overactive hormones. There is no "NORMAL" way to feel, just be you!!!!
2006-07-05 09:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are normal. Just go with your heart and ignore what society tells you is normal or not normal. It is normal for you to feel. It is normal for you to love. I would be more concerned if you DIDN'T get crushes on someone. If it makes your heart happy, it's a good thing.
2006-07-05 12:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋