i'm scared because since we found out that i was pregnet and i moved in with him now i'm scared that since were gonna have a baby at young age that we will loose intrest in each other .
2006-07-05 09:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You will have to work hard at nurturing your relationship. It will be difficult to spend time focusing on each other with a little one around, but it can definitely be done. Rent movies and watch them after the baby goes to bed. Have a picnic on the ground in the backyard. You could also trade babysitting services with a friend who has a child so that you two can go out. It doesn't have to be anything expensive or extravagant. You just need to do something that will help you connect. I hope these ideas encourage you. Good luck!
2006-07-05 09:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. My fiance have 2 babies now. We got our own place the day I turned 18. I'm almost 21 and we still love each other as much if not more than we did when we first started dating. It's one of those things you have to work on. There are times that it can be hard but if you really love each other you'll make it work.
2006-07-05 09:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think the baby would cause you to lose interest in each other? Is it already happening since you moved in?
I'm guessing the relationship is not all that you had hoped since you moved in with him. Try to keep the interest going by doing nice things for each other and spending time cuddling and talking.
It takes hard work to keep the interest going.
2006-07-05 09:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be it will be, whether you got pregnant or not. Just like, if it's not meant to be, it won't be, whether you got pregnant or not. If things end, just look at it as if it would have ended whether you had a baby together or not. I really hope it works out though, and if not, just know that there's someone else out there for you 10,000 times better, that you'll love 100,000 times more.
2006-07-05 09:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by ac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are afraid the he will lose intereest in you. Dont worry... rearing a child isnt that stressful if you plan, plan, plan. If you do this, the baby will bring you and him closer together. But you must plan so that little problems dont arise that cause stress.
2006-07-05 09:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ty W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he wont lose intrest in you because is sounds that he loves yous if he let you move in.
2006-07-05 09:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by chi_power23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll just have something else to take interest in.. but that doesn't mean you will lose interest in each other - as long as you both still love each other
2006-07-05 09:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by LissyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you'll lose connection. Hust tell him that you are still important!
2006-07-05 09:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u two are an optimist u;ll have even more reasons to bind together...
2006-07-05 09:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by vek14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that wont happen because he has to be their to support you as you hav your baby.
2006-07-05 10:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by wish.on.a.star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋