do i like him?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months. he is. as my friends say, somewhat obsessed with me. he thinks we will get married and every thing. we are only 13. the problem is that i dont think i like him anymore. when ever he calls in my head im thinkin "shut up" "stop talkin" "go away" and when ever he asks me to hang out i always think of an excuse. i know hat i dont have feelings fo him any more. or do i? i really dont want to break up with him cause hes really nice guy and hes always telling me that he would be lost without me. and one time he cried cause he THOUGHT i was gonna break up with him. i really dont want to hurt his feelings but i dont like him any more. im almost possitive. and today on the phone i didnt say i love you but it was a total and complete accident. and i almost cheated on him but i felt totally horribaly. what should i do?????

Answer 1

Be the polite and mature person and say you aren't interested and think you should break up. He'll hurt, but he'll live too.

Maybe you can see this is a good reason why you shouldn't date at your age. You have no idea of the emotional issues you are causing by dating.

Answer 2

Do you even have to ask you said it yourself you don't even like him anymore so why are you even wasting your time and his for that matter. Y'all are 13 why is the subject of marriage even coming up I am 23 years old and marriage is so far from my mind you and him need to try growing up first (I am not insulting you) experience everything that life has to offer. There is this huge world out there full of people and adventures you shouldn't even have a boyfriend at 13 you should be hanging out with friends playins sports going shopping enjoying everything that life has to offer a 13 year old. It is totally ok to break up with him TRUST me he will get over it, if he's thinking about marriage right now he is lacking something in his life maybe he comes from a broken family or something I dont know. If he truly believes he loves you then yeah he will be sad when you break up with him but you can stay friends you can introduce him to your friends and just go out and do kid things show him that there is so much more to life. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

Sometimes you just have to say NO. This guy has completely worn out any chances of wondering whats going to happen tomorrow because he has already told you how things will be up to YRS down the road!! It pretty much takes any romance out of the game of dating doesnt it. Eventually your stomach turns just thinking that you have to spend another hour with the guy. Your not doing him or yourself any favors by keeping this going tho you are just going to have to tell him that you dont want to see him as a boyfriend anymore. The fact that you nearly cheated on him is clearly telling you that you are ready to move on from this guy. Do him a favor if hes a "nice guy" and be honest with him. Everyone has to learn and sometimes its the hard way . You have to set yourself free to have fun and move on now so that he will do the same. Talk to your parents about it too. They could have additional advice. Good luck.

Answer 4

Listen, you are only 13, right? 1st you don't know what real love is, 2nd you don't need to get serious with anyone, you really don't need to "date" or "go out with" anyone, you'll find out that a lot of guys do the crying thing, just so you don't break up with him, don't be the sucker, DO WHAT YOU WANT!!! But if your making up excuses not to talk to him, and hate the thought of him calling you, you don't really like him, sounds to me like he's makes you feel sorry for him and you stay with him. Life is to short, enjoy it, don't be tied down to one man or in your case one boy, just remember, there's different kinds of fish in the sea!!!! Good Luck your so young, have fun and be very careful who you choose to hang with!!!!

Answer 5

Ok, I want to back up to the fact that you're 13 and you said you "almost cheated" on someone. 13 is young to be dating, let alone cheating. It's obvious you don't want the nice guy, so break up with him before it becomes more painful for him. It will be painful enough when he sees you walking around with the guy you "almost cheated" on him with. Stop sulking about it and act.

Answer 6

A relationship never works out if one doesn't have equivalent feelings for the other. It may hurt his feelings but you have to reveal your true feelings to him, because you can't keep him under the deception and masquerade of you making him think that you still like him and want to be with him.The longer you wait, the more broken his heart might become.The best of luck.

Answer 7

Girl, you don't like him so just fess up to that and tell him that your not feeling him anymore instead of cheating on him. Would you want anyone to cheat on you? You can break up with him without hurting his feelings, did you know that. It's better to be with someone that you like and have feelings for than to be with someone who would call you and you wanting them to just shut up. Why don't you just stay friends with him? Maybe that'll be better than nothing.

Answer 8

Run as fast as you can. 13 and already talking marriage, I'm 29 and not ready to take the leap yet. What is wrong with this picture.

Answer 9

well if you dont like him then break up with him, before you really hurt him. i mean its so ****** obvious that you have or no longer have feelings for him. what is the use of being with someone if you dont have feelings anymore? also tell him how you feel and what you think about you two's relationship.

Answer 10

You are way too young to be worried about this. Break up with him and enjoy your childhood with your friends. You'll be greatful if you do later on in life:)