I really like this guy who is hot one minute and cold the next. He admitted last night that he doesn't like himself right now so he doesn't feel like he can give me what I deserve. However, he wanted to stay over because he says he likes to be around me and he likes the way I make him feel. I just don't get it!
2006-07-05 09:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Blondie82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds exactly like my ex. He wants to be around you when he wants it and when he does not want to he goes away.He is just unstable and does not know what he wants.Or want the both of his world to be single and yet cannot help the fact that he has feelings for you.Talk to him and let him know how you feel.May be he will open up to you.
2006-07-05 09:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Amry 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
You just gotta ask him, how he really feels about you. Tell him how you really feel about him. Tell him that you think that he's being wishy-washy, but without hurting his feelings. Tell him that you could give you what you deserve and how does he know what exactly what you do deserve? Maybe you might deserve him, if only he would give it a chance.
2006-07-05 09:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's being wishy-washy. He admits that he's not ready for a committed relationship, but he still likes to be with you. I think that's fair enough. It's up to you if you can live with it or not.
2006-07-05 09:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lotte T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you like this guy? Is he worth a little effort? If so, let he hang with you until he feels more confident around you and he works out his issues. It just might be the guy that makes everything worth IT in your life. It's like playing the lotto, you can't win if you don't play!
2006-07-05 09:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having a bit of a self esteem problem. You help lift him up. Guys like things that make them feel good. Thats why they like sex so much. Lolz. What is there not to get?
2006-07-05 09:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he may have another girl or something. However, if not then, you should move on, he obviously can;t make up his mind, so date until he does make up his mind, but don't wait for him because he might not choose you and then you have wasted your time on him and his doesn't deserve it. But it sounds like you make him like him-self, and if he is telling the truth it may take time, just let him know how you feel and that you aren't gonna wait for him to make up his mind.. He's either got it or he don't.
2006-07-05 09:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, the excuse he gave you really means he is just not ready to be in a relationship with YOU. Its basically the same old "ITs not you, its me" routine but with different verbage.
2006-07-05 09:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by AJ A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to get laid and then hit the road. I say that from my own experiences. Tell him to hit the door, girl.
2006-07-05 09:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It will explain to you that this behavior is normal.
2006-07-05 09:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you as a good friend. Ever hear of "friends with benefits?"
2006-07-05 09:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋