i have a boyfreind and i dont love him but he says he loves me. idont even think i like him. but i like hes freind and i think his freind likes me. i whant to breack up with him so bad but i dont want to break his heart and what makes it bad is his cousi n and me are like sisters, we grew up together and i think shell turn on me if i break his heart like that.
2006-07-05 08:58:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough spot, breaking up with him is fine, but moving on to his friend isn't cool. Is your friendship worth this, I wouldn't do it. Break up with him yes, move on to his friend no.
2006-07-05 09:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in situations like this is to follow your heart and let him down easily. If you really do not feel the same way then you need to get out of that relationship and give his friend a shot. However, you could end up getting burned if the friend turns on you as well.
2006-07-05 16:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to follow your heart. All you are doing everyday you don't break up with him is buy time. In the end you may break his heart even more if you continue to do what you are doing. Once you break things off with your boyfriend, don't go after his friend the next day. Keep in touch with his friend and see what happens. Talk to his cousin after the break-up. If she shuts you out that is her own loss and you will just have to move on.
2006-07-05 16:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh I have like the same story. I was dating my best friends cousin for like 2 months and then she told me "He says he loves you but doesn't know how to tell you" which made me happy except that I was starting to lose interest in him I just wasn't feeling him anymore you understand so I never gave him the chance to tell me He loved me because I broke up with him we ended things on good terms I just told him that I wasn't ready for a relationship and I wanted to stay friends. We stayed friends for like a week or two then we never spoke again, my best friend and I stayed friend for years after that she never said anything about it she understood and we never talked about it again. I think she knew that I just didn't like him anymore and that I had lied to him because 3 months later I started dating another guy which turned into a long term relationship so obviously I was ready for relationship just no with him. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-05 16:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no interest in him break up with him, do it soon, the longer you wait the worst it will be for the both of you, dont just say its over talk with him discuss the situation, to a point,
2006-07-05 16:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, ditch the chump. You don't like him so why keep dragging him along? Oh forget the best friend thats out of bounds. His friends gay anyway. Talk with the cousin before hand and maybe she will just chop off a finger two.
2006-07-05 16:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Andy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ya prolly shoulda thought bout that before ya started datin' him. If ur not happy then break up with him. It will hurt him if he loves u but then u both are gonna be free to find something better.
2006-07-05 16:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should be honest with your man and tell him how you really feel about him. his cousin should understand the situation. cause if you dont tell your bf now, then you are going to hurt him all worst then. also you should leave his friend alone, cause that will make your bf and his friend turn from each other and make conflicts between them.
2006-07-05 16:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even like him, then you are lying to everyone. Let him down very gentley and be kind - stay away from his friend too, that would be way too hurtful. If your cousin is mad because you are honest, I would question your friendship with her.
2006-07-05 16:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really dont like him anymore tell him the truth so he can find someone that does... and if that girl is really your friend then she wont turn on you just because you dont like her cousin.... and as for you liking his friend i wouldnt go for that i think that would break his heart!!
2006-07-05 16:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋