how long should i wait to tell a man how i really feel about him without scaring him off?? i have been out of the dating scene so long , i dont know what to say or when to say it thanks
2006-07-05 08:57:33 · 9 answers · asked by answerqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant tell him face to face, he is in Iraq right now...
2006-07-05 09:04:49 · update #1
I like a woman to be honest. If you love him tell him if it scares him off, it wasn't meant to be anyway. Stay true to your heart.
2006-07-05 10:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by finchfactory 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just isnt the same for every man so no one can tell when the right time is. We dont work on clocks. for me I like them to be open and honest from the start. I never was one for hints and guessing games. life is much too short to play. I am a free emotions type of guy but not all men are like me. For me I am the way i like to be treated if it scares her away then we really were not meant to be. But i do understand that I am not always seeing everything as she maybe seeing things and she maybe wondering since I am the way I am if I were interested then I would have spoken up. but sometimes it does not work this way for too many reasons to list. I would rather if someone feels a certain way they come forward right away I never got scared over someone expressing their emotions, wants and desires.
2006-07-05 16:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a home video for him VHS and explain to him how you feel and just lay it out on the line. Tell him thank you for serving in Iraq for all of us. God bless him.
2006-07-05 16:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when the right time is. You can tell. Tell him when you know is is really feeling you. Tell him when you can see it in his eyes that he wants to hear it!
2006-07-05 16:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Just tell him. That's it. But don't expect anything in response from him. You'll see how he reacts and that is that.
2006-07-05 16:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by DipperJapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny how u said serious men only... if this guy u like is not an immature freak and is really serious. he wont run. he wont be scared away. you get me.
2006-07-05 16:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by krazy4grls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know. But don't wait forever. I did and now its too late.
2006-07-05 16:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men dont respond to this the way women do consider that; they dotn freak out; i didnt lol
2006-07-05 16:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in an e-mail today.
2006-07-05 16:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋