i have been with my man for two years...deep down i know he doesnt treat me like a person who is in love should treat someone. i know we are very attached to eachother, and i am very involved with his family. they love me and i love them. i do not want to live without them in my life. i know if i lost them i would never be able to forget them and they would haunt me for the rest of my life. my boyfriends lil brother and me get along very well, we are closer together in age then my bf. he has a girlfriend, but i feel strong connection between us at times. for awhile i thought it was just physical attraction, but i am not close to what his girlfriend looks like. shes asian and i am white. could i possibly be with my bf to bring me closer to his brother. but i am not sure if these are the feelings he feels. could it be possible i love my bf but maybe startin to fall for another.my bf doesnt make me feel beautiful and femine or half as alive as i feel when i am around his lil bro
2006-07-05 08:47:56 · 7 answers · asked by Martin2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what the hell is up with these wierd *** answers? can you take me seriously?
2006-07-05 09:04:24 · update #1
I've been in your shoes before.. kinda. My best friend, Allyson, has a twin brother, Austin. And I loved him to death! Eventually, Allyson and I started not being bestfriends. We kinda drifted apart. But I still spent the night over at her house all the time. And I started wondering if I was just "using" her to get closer to Austin. Well, as time went on, I found out that the friend connection between me and Allyson was so much more important than what Austin and I had. I still spend the night over there all the time, but not to be with Austin. Although he is some nice eye candy.. Me and Allyson are best friends and always will be. So, if I was in your shoes.. for real, I'd stick with your bf for a while longer, and if you just dont feel like he treats you the way he should, then break it off for a while. I know.. its hard. but in the end, it tells you what you really want.
2006-07-05 14:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by invisible 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because his lil brother pays more attention to you than your man. Girl really I think you are totally confused how about if you just chill out on the whole guy thing for a minute and find your self out first ,what do you want, how would you feel and ex....
2006-07-05 09:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe you are falling for the b rother, then A. You are not inlove with your bf, B. You are too close in such a dagerous way. both respect and GOD wise you should back off. and C. finally, if you still feel this way, do the right thing brake it off in a tactful way with the bf and maybe if things smooth over you can persue the brother.
2006-07-05 08:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what "LOVE" is? how high is it's statue compared with your selfish thoughts. Do you know it's divine secrets forever waiting no your choice? Do you know it's other face, called madness? Tell us "romans" please, how long have you been cutting your heart open in front of a mortal only to find out that none of them knew your it at all, except, maybee a holy presence? Do you desire more out of life? Why can't you miss us?
2006-07-05 08:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by romaniascott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXLeviticus 18
1 The LORD told Moses
2 to tell the people of Israel: I am the LORD your God!
3 So don't follow the customs of Egypt where you used to live or those of Canaan where I am bringing you.
4 I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.
5 Obey them and you will live. I am the LORD.
6 Don't have sex with any of your close relatives,
7 especially your own mother. This would disgrace your father.
8 And don't disgrace him by having sex with any of his other wives.
9 Don't have sex with your sister or stepsister, whether you grew up together or not.
10 Don't disgrace yourself by having sex with your granddaughter
11 or half sister
12 or a sister of your father or mother.
13 (SEE 18:12)
14 Don't disgrace your uncle by having sex with his wife.
15 Don't have sex with your daughter-in-law
16 or sister-in-law.
17 And don't have sex with the daughter or granddaughter of any woman that you have earlier had sex with. You may be having sex with a relative, and that would make you unclean.
18 As long as your wife is alive, don't cause trouble for her by taking one of her sisters as a second wife.
19 When a woman is having her monthly period, she is unclean, so don't have sex with her.
20 Don't have sex with another man's wife--that would make you unclean.
21 Don't sacrifice your children on the altar fires to the god Molech. I am the LORD your God, and that would disgrace me.
22 It is disgusting for a man to have sex with another man.
23 Anyone who has sex with an animal is unclean.
24 Don't make yourselves unclean by any of these disgusting practices of those nations that I am forcing out of the land for you. They made themselves
25 and the land so unclean, that I punished the land because of their sins, and I made it vomit them up.
26 Now don't do these sickening things that make the land filthy. Instead, obey my laws and teachings.
27 (SEE 18:26)
28 Then the land won't become sick of you and vomit you up, just as it did them.
29 If any of you do these vulgar, disgusting things, you will be unclean and no longer belong to my people. I am the LORD your God, and I forbid you to follow their sickening way of life.
30 (SEE 18:29)
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2006-07-05 08:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love me I treat you like you mine
2006-07-05 08:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is posoble but you need to make him break up with you so you can date his bro!!!!!!
2006-07-05 08:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋