2006-07-05 08:45:55 · 31 answers · asked by likestoplaydumbgames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your sister that you saw him out and about town wearing women's clothes and that you followed him and he went into a bondage gay club!!
2006-07-05 08:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by happyslappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger my sisters and I did not like my cousins boyfriend for anything we didn't like the way he was his personality nothing we didn't want them together and one day we sat down and thought up all these things we could do to seperate them some of it was just hilarious. So anyways of course we never did it we let them date and after 10 years of dating they got married, they now have a 1 month old daughter and they the happiest people ever. So basically I'm saying just leave them alone let them be together if thats what they want they'll either grow to truly love eachother and be happy together or they'll fall apart all on their own good luck!!!
2006-07-05 15:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really important to let your sister know how you feel about this guy. Let her know that you're not trying to sabotage her relationship. Let her know that there's something about his words or his actions that throw up little red flags all over the place. Tell her you've seen these little red flags turn into really bad situations with other couples. Tell your sister that you want her to be happy but you feel this guy is dangerous in some way. You have to be clear on your reasons about this guy too. Tell your sister that your just an outsider looking in and you don't want her to end up in a "Lifetime Movie".
If your sister does'nt respond to how you're feeling and you really feel that this guy is bad for her....Then you as her sister need to take charge. It's time to get all secret detective on that dude. If he's cheating on her....catch him. Take pictures with your phone or camera. If he's stalking her, catch him ( it's easier than you think ). If there's abuse, document it. Take pictures of your sisters scars or bruises if she has any.
I had to get my best friend out of an abusive relationship. He would beat on her all the time and told her that he'd kill her if she told anyone. When he left one day I gave her some tape recorders to tape the incidents. She had an alarm that she sounded when ever she needed me to come over. ( the sounder was at my house down the street and i'd be over in like 1 min ) I took pictures of her brusies and when we had enough evidence she moved into my place and we had him arrested. He's still in jail.
I seriously hope that your sisters situation is no where near that bad. But if it is you now have some ideas as to how to help her.
If there's no abuse just keep a log as what this guys actions are that bother you so much and after you've got enough, give them to your sister. Look sis, he did this x amount of times, he did this x amount of times and so on and so forth. Let her know that she's worthy of something better. I hope this helps you out. Best of luck to you and your sister.
2006-07-05 16:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a trip for the two of you to go away somewhere, a sort of "sister's weekend". Go as far away and for as long as your finances will allow. While you are away, have a heart to heart talk with her and find out what's really going on and why she's staying with him. Getting her out of the situation, even temporarily may help to clear her head.
If he is truly a psychopath, she should see a counselor and get professional help with trying to extricate herself from this situation.
2006-07-05 15:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him screw things up on his own so you don't ruin your relationship with your sister. Right now, she'll probably take his side over yours no matter what, & trying to break her up with him will only make her mad at you. Sorry I can't be of more help.
2006-07-05 15:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your sister also see this? can you talk to her? keep your eyes and ears open. If what you say is true than your sister will need to see this too before things get out of control.
2006-07-05 15:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by mackey208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant your sister has to get rid of him. You are going to ruin your relationship with your sister if you interfere just pray and let God work it out.
2006-07-05 15:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by itsme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how crazy is he? If he tries to hurt your sister, severley impair his ability to move, talk, reporoduce, or otherwise function.
If he's a real Psychopath, call 911 and have him commited.
2006-07-05 15:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by playdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. It is your sister's choice to let this "crazy psychopath guy" into her life. It isn't your problem.
2006-07-05 15:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he comes to your house tell him how she just took the biggest rankest dump ever and it smelled up the whole house and she was freaking because she thought he was gonna know it was her and act like its a big joke. if nothing else, it would be funny.
2006-07-05 15:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Hunter S. Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of his way till her kills your sister. Then report his crime to the police.
2006-07-05 15:48:28 · answer #11 · answered by jackmcleod_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋