Hi. Okay, it is probably time for me to settle down soon (not too soon). Do I sound like the ideal type of guy that you would like to date/marry? Let me start by introducing myself.
I'm a 26 y.o living in Toronto, Canada.
I have completed University and a graduate degree.
I currently work in the Pharmaceutical industry.
I workout almost everyday and play Soccer 3x / week.
I'm confident, ambitious, and competitive.
I have a great sense of humour, and love making girls smile :)
I am financially independent and live on my own.
I'm outgoing yet shy, cocky yet humble, assertive yet sensitive.
I have no problems getting dates with girls, only finding the right girls to date. I'm not here looking to hook up, but am open to chatting if you're interested.
Oh btw, I kinda look like my avatar, so no worries ;)
Would appreciate some advice ladies...
Do I just need to get out there more?
2006-07-05 08:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a nice, single, guy!
If you are ready to settle down, you need to think about not just who you are / what you have to offer (in terms of appearance, personality, material things), but you now need to present what you are willing to sacrifice -- this is what truly makes a nice guy a great man to consider marrying.
Are you willing to put aside some of your dreams and ambitions (and fun, single guy stuff) in order to be a provider for the woman you marry and for your children -- if you decide to start a family? Are you willing to not put yourself in any situations that would make your new partner uncomfortable (chatting online with other girls, going to bars with your guy friends, etc) and are you ready to put your wants aside so that you can do anything possible to make your woman happy?
This is what a real man does when he is ready to settle down, and he does this with / for a woman who is ready to reciprocate and do the same things for him.
Great to hear you are putting thought into settlind down -- just remember this entails settling into being a real man and that is not something that is always fun and exciting but it is the choice guys make when they are grown up and ready for the responsibility and incredible joys of being a husband / father.
2006-07-05 08:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok well this all sounds terrific, assuming you're not lying thru your teeth. The problem is probably that you are looking too hard for the right woman. Your only 26, live a little baby. You will not be able to make anyone happy unless you yourself are happy. Dont rush things, 10 years and 40 lbs from now, sitting on your sofa with your beer gut and balk head you are going to be thinking: Why didn't I do THAT when I was younger, or, more than likely, Why the hell did I get married so young, just think of all the things i could have done. Dont get me wrong, marriage is not all bad, but lets face it, when the honeymoons over and the kids start popping out, its not quite so glamorous. Wives get fat and bitchy at times, are you prepared to put up with that without being a jerk? I guarantee you will not at 26 yrs of age. You sound like a sweet educated guy, so dont worry, the ladies will love you.
2006-07-05 09:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister i strongli propose u hit upon a husband and stay maried. marriage is something allah has blessed us with an not something to disrespect like that, it would anger allah very much for someone 2 do this, especialy a 'muslim'. the ''favor interior of u'' would wel b ur sexual desires, and that is general even if that's to be fulfilled in a halal way i.e. marriage, an the marriage isn't 2 be annold wen one sounds like it, marriage is truly serious sis there r many benifits in marriage, did u do not ignore that jus sleepin with ur husband is an act of ibada(worship). there's a hadith that announces wenever a muslim couple divorce the throne of allah shakes. inspite of the actuality that it is a susceptible hadith u can see im positive the seriousness of marrige. that's likewise wel widespread that wen a pair divorces the shaitaans convey mutually an tell iblis of thier evil deeds to achieve his determination yet one shaitaan stands up an says ''I have made a pair divorce'' and iblis the outcast says '' u are my admired''. even i'm lookin for marriage even if it would want to be finished the ideal way with a mahram. plz sister take this heavily an attempt to get close 2 allah, insha allah i would like 4my muslim sister wat i would like 4myself. wen u sense in hazard of throwing away ur chastity then one might want to quickly. a hadith wher the rasul s.a.w. sed 'if that's straight forward to marry then he might want to marry an if not he might want to quickly'. salaams
2016-10-14 03:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by garfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good one to marry. I don't think you need to get out more, unless you are having dating issues. If so, do you know why each relationship ended? That could very well give you a clue on how to do things better. Good lukc finding someone!
2006-07-05 08:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a guy that most women would love. You need to get out more and meet new people. There is somebody out there for everyone you just ain't found yours yet. Good Luck!!
2006-07-05 08:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a man ill marry u
2006-07-05 08:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by lizzythelizzerdwhosucksmygizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... if I were single --- I'm married, too bad! ;)
2006-07-05 08:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-05 08:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋