Remember in the game of courtship that opposites attract. What most people are unaware of is that while attraction is at least partially based upon attractiveness, the primal instinct is to be pulled more towards that which is what we intrinsically lack.
Women are (are you sitting down) the weaker sex. Yes, yes I know. Lets save the postulates and aggrandizements for another question, shall we? Women seek that which is stronger then they are - but also, security. To the extent that being too bold and presumptious can make them uneasy (read:scary). What you want to do then is establish a framework of both trust and strength in order to woo your prey effectively.
There is no single methodology that one can hand out - would that there were, I'd be a rich girl. However mindset is everything. Having ensured that you are clean, free of any offensive odors and not wearing white socks with sandals, practice on your confidence. Confidence is a tricky business - so what you will want to do seperately is develop an anchor before plying your wares.
There are many good sites that can expound on anchoring. In a nutshell, it consists of creating a physical cue by imagining a time when you felt your most confident and then touching your finger and thumb together. You repeat this in order to cue your mind to associate the sensation of the 'trigger' with the state of confidence. This works on the same area of the brian as music does (you know how certain songs can just bring back memories and feelings of something that happened years ago? That's the state you get from anchoring.
Lets summarize:
1) Boldness and strength are your friends.
2) But also make sure that you are well-groomed to whatever extent the female you are attract will appreciate most.
3) Remember that opposites attract.
4) Anchor your confidence.
5) Practice and practice. And then practice some more. Mozart did not become a world famous composer the first time he tickled the ivories and neither will you. However if you are even half as motivated to the art of pursuing women as he was to music then it will be all but impossible for you not to succeed.
Pruiently,
Ms. Teak
2006-07-05 09:00:46
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answered by Ms. Teak 3
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Smile
2006-07-05 08:45:27
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answered by callalobo 2
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Make eye contact and smile. Linger just a little to long with your glance, but make sure you are looking into her eyes, not any lower.
2006-07-05 08:46:03
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answered by therego2 5
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Great posture, an understated smile, and direct eye contact.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 08:48:10
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answered by tjh1957 1
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make eye contact, double take, smile softly like she is the most beautiful girl you have ever seen. act shy like you blushed...look away and look back. Kind of act like you don't want her to see you staring (but make sure she notices) and act like you cant believe you are seeing such beauty.
2006-07-05 09:03:01
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answered by ♣ 4
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Maybe a wink and a smile
2006-07-05 08:46:54
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answered by ladyoh 5
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Repeated glances, first short, then longers, followed by "Hi, my name is...."
2006-07-05 08:46:41
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answered by BigPappa 5
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As a female, I personally prefer something funny. It captures my attention.
2006-07-05 09:56:45
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answered by soozemusic 6
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Smile and comb your hair.
2006-07-05 08:48:01
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answered by MornGloryHM 4
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do not take your eyes away from her...talk to her through you eyes,while u r looking at her think of everything u want to say and whatever inside your minds it will refrect in you eyes.
2006-07-05 18:06:24
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answered by jen h 2
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