i used to go to the roller dome(gay i kno but i dont go there anymore) too much drama ..... well i thought of this girl like my cousin and she introduced me and this guy named austin and we were talkin and hangin out every friday and saturday we were there and one night he asked me out and i said yes and he kissed me and i fell in love we were together for a long time and did everything went to the movies went to dinner with his parents everything.......but then a jelous backstabbing ***** broke us up because over spring break i had to go and vist my mom in the hospital in maryland (i live in indiana) and i didnt have my cell with me so we didnt talk so he got really sad because he thought i didnt like him and then she was "helping him" and kissed him so i found out and called it off because i found out that it happened lots that week!!! so now i am afraid to fall in love..... are any of you????
2006-07-05 08:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by ♥love~really~sux♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very scary to put yourself out there after you have had your heart broken, especially the first time. Just take time to heal and take it slow getting back in the dating game. But you have to get back out there eventually or you will never be able to find the one who will treat you right.
2006-07-05 08:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a guy for three years. He was my first love even though I had other boyfriends before him. While I was at college we stuck together even though we were two hours apart. we did make it work for three years. the last few months before we broke up he started talking with another girl who as you said "helped" him through things. He cheated on me as well. Don't only blame the girl for what happened. If she knew you and that you were dating this guy than I don't blame you for call her bad names. I think I did that myself. Just remember it takes two people to cheat. As far as falling in love again. I was completely heart broken for some time and I will be honest, it still hurts when I think of my ex. However, I met another guy and took a chance. I am in love again, am happy, and am excited for our future together. I do still keep my guard up occassionally. With my new relationship we are completely honest with each other and talk through things that bother us or might concern us. Don't give up on love, you will meet someone one day who will want to be with you and no one else even when you are away.
2006-07-05 15:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share of heart ache, but look forward to the day I can love again....Once I find a partner that is willing to put in as much as I into the relationship then I look forward to getting the most out of it and the only way I can do that is to fall deeply in love with that person...be cautious but not to a fault.
2006-07-05 15:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, when your in love it takes a little more than that for the guy to be led a stray. When in love, there are not too many women who can seduce a mature guy. I'm scared too, but I don't let it affect my future relationships, everyone is not that way.
2006-07-05 15:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't make the world go round, it just makes the ride worth while. Where there is love there is pain, but you still have a chance to live again. You can love, just don't trust.
2006-07-05 15:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the past and after the last relationshipI had, I probably will be for a long time to come.
2006-07-05 15:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, u just gotta build a bridge and get over it. not all guys do that so u just gotta pick good ones. yea i'm the same way
2006-07-05 15:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. the world is full of guys. it is not meant to be so move on to bigger and better things.
2006-07-05 15:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋