...but there are a TON of kids in adoption agencies still. Why would somebody give me the false hope of having my unwanted son put into a loving home but then not go out and take these kids out of the orphanages? Is it because my Avatar is white? Are these people racist or hipocrates? I can't decide...
2006-07-05 07:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What the h e l l are you talking about? Chances are you are not white as your name is "Calexico"............ boarder town between Arizona and Mexico.
mb
2006-07-05 07:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's expensive to adop through an agency. Not everyone can afford the thousands (sometimes $10k+) to adopt the kid they want from the agency they want.
Kids in the adoption system also may have problems: crack babies, severe ADD, developmental problems, & other special needs. Some are just much older and not many people want to adopt a teen.
It's also easy to bond with a baby a person sees right in front of them. They can see the child and imagine themself raising it. They don't get to see kids at a pro adoption agency until after they pay $$$ in fees, fill out screening forms, etc
2006-07-05 14:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are not tons of kids in Adoption Agencies. There are many children in the Foster Care system but not all of them are legally free to adopt. (In other words their parents right have not been terminated yet)
Agencies also cost in excess of $25K to adopt from where a private adoption is around $10K, A HUGE difference and PROFIT for an Agency which I think is downright disgusting!
I hope you don't think being white really has anything to do with it. Because there are MANY loving familes who could care less about color.
2006-07-06 10:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by alpharee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one that sounds racist.. People are basically good and just try to help. How do you know they haven't adopted any children? You have a lot of anger, that you should get some help for. You are judging these people and you don't even know them. Shame on you.
2006-07-05 14:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad too see unwanted kids.
I dont know why they say that but wont go down and get a unwanted foster child?
I dont think it has to do with race maybe they just dont want to deal with the state?
2006-07-05 14:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may not know of a good adoption agency.
2006-07-05 14:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sancira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think ur just a lil whacked out
2006-07-05 15:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the hat, they assume your child must be retarded also. Therefore, they feel sorry for him.
2006-07-05 14:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by HOT A$S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋