It's becoming clear to me that this is not the way to attract women. Do you have to be rude, or just a bit more inattentive?
2006-07-05 07:32:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a big difference between being a "nice guy" and being a pushover! Every one of my friends and I married nice guys. Women can't stand it when men can't make a decision on their own. You may think you're just being polite and giving her what she wants but every once in awhile, you decide on what movie to go to or whatever. Also, have your own opinions. No one wants to be with someone who agrees with everything they say. It's boring!
2006-07-05 07:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
... Why would you want to lose the "nice guy" tag?
If you've found that this approach is not working for you, perhaps you've been trying it upon insecure women who prefer to be treated badly. -- Try adjusting your standards, looking elsewhere, and exploring different women, first. Do not compromise YOURSELF until you deem it to be a necessary last resort, (if at all.)
Besides... would *you* want to be in a relationship with someone who was rude, inattentive, cold, and uncaring? No? Then your prospective partner shouldn't either.
Trust me; there are plenty plenty plenty of women like nice guys. With time and patience, you'll find them.
2006-07-05 14:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by askingjonas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with the nice guy tag? sure the more froward rude guys may get the girls, but how long does the relationship last and its normally purely based on popularity or looks. Y not be the guy, girls want fro a good, caring romantic relationship?
2006-07-05 14:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be rude, but you don't want to be her puppy dog either.
Be nice to her, because just being an a**hole will be even worse. But if you're just meeting a girl, you don't need to hang on her every word, call her 5 times a day, follow her around, etc. Give her some space.
If she's interested, she'll meet you halfway. If she's not, you need to move on and find someone who is interested in you.
2006-07-05 14:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like the nice guy tag. and if you wanna change that about you... well... this is what im trying to say. if you can only attract the rigth girls you want to have by not being nice, but being nice is who you really are well maybe you aren't finding the right girls to lookk for. maybe a girl that likes the nice guy tag will come your way soon so you won't have to change yourself in order to get the girls you want. i hope i helped.
2006-07-05 16:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to lose the nice guy routine means to be a complete and utter jerk. the kind of pathetic loser who'd sooner kick you while your down than help you up. You woulld have to stop caring about everything in general, and force your will on others. That's the kind of jerk you want, then there you go.
2006-07-05 14:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not so much the bad boy but the i don't give a fu*k guy the rebel tall dark and hansom be mysterious buy open be rude but sensitive and having a really nice car works well too lol
2006-07-05 14:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most young ladies fall for jerks. When they mature, they start liking nice guys who are good providers. However, no one likes a wishy washy guy. Be direct, know what you want and communicate it effectively.
2006-07-05 14:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Gregory T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont got to extreme cause alot of grls like nice guys over bastards........ just maybe wear ur hair different, or get some new clothes.... nice guys will get more action in tha long run
2006-07-05 14:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take chances or do something different like change your wardrobe and dying your hair
2006-07-05 14:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by caressa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋