I was with a man who told me he can go for 3 hours and come without ejaculating or even go 3 hours without coming.
Is there something wrong with me or him.BTW I'm very attractive girl and he is sexy to ....sooo I never encountered this situation before so I didn't know what to think and was dissapointed in me not making him come early? ...Can anyone help and tell me what's normal and what's not ?
I really need your help because I really like this guy and if it takes him this long to come this makes me feel bad about me not satisfying him in bed.
2006-07-05 07:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he "come" but not ejaculate? Thats impossible. It is possible to have an orgasm and not "come" but not the other way.
2006-07-05 07:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by CJ B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men are able to have an orgasm without ejaculating for the following reasons: some men are incapable of ejaculating; some men can ejaculate once and continue to have orgasms without ejacalution; and some men can just hold it back. As long as he is having an orgasm, does it really matter if he ejaculates? In that case, you are still pleasing him so I wouldn't worry about it.
As for not coming for 3 hours, maybe he is just able to go that long, or he could have a "desensitized" penis (that can happen if you have sex for a long period of time, making it harder to have an orgasm). It doesn't mean that you aren't pleasing him.
If you are really that concerned, you could also just ask him if you are pleasing him and find out what you could do to please him more. I would think that he would be honest in that department, as most men would (I know I would).
2006-07-05 07:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by jdub2028 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 03:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's supposedly possible for guys, though I've definitely never seen it.
Even if he can do it, if it doesn't turn you on, ask him not to. He may think that his stamina is impressing you.
But if this is his thing, don't assume you aren't satisfying him. He may be having just the kind of sex he wants, even if it isn't what you are used to.
2006-07-05 07:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some guys it is possible to do this. I could be allot of reasons why. It could be that he is nervous about something in the situation. or he might be worried about satisfying you and what you want. Try allot more foreplay before having sex. Get him aroused allot more.
2006-07-05 07:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by russell j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋