theres this guy that i like and i wanna tell him but we're really good friends and i dont wanna ruin anything......any suggestions!?
2006-07-05 06:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man this always seems to happen between friends. i think you should ask him if he likes you as more than a friend. the same thing happened to me. i liked my friends friend (i knew them both for about 2 years)but she didnt like me. then i found out my friend liked me and wanted to go out with me but, like you, i didnt want to lose her as my friend. well after that we started hanging out less and less and we went to different schools and when we met in highschool she was really mean and ignored me when i said hi to her. i say go for it cuz u might regret it later on.
keep on keepin on
2006-07-05 07:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Don't bomb him with, "I LIKE YOU, TOM" (or whatever), but ask to see a movie, or do fun stuff together. This will push along the signal you're trying to send, if he likes you back, he will respond. Don't push him into a relationship, since he is your friend, he might not be able to tell you know.
However, this could damage a strong foundation, so I would stick to the safe side and just stay friends, someone you can trust and look to for advice.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 14:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by starrynight107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is always the chance you take when you like someone, that it wont' work out and you will lose what you have, but friendship is what makes a great relationship. I would hint around about how he feels about you and how he would show a girl he likes her and that you like this guy and how should you tell him.
You get the drift, better to know than not to know. You can always stay friends, if it is meant to be it will be.
2006-07-05 13:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about it for a while.. then be very honest with him. Tell him what you feel! If he returns your favors, then you are lucky! If not , try to settle for friendship..romances can come and go but friendships remain a lifetime! I recently went thru something like that and he just wanted to be friends!
Good luck!
2006-07-05 13:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never seen a man tell an "attractive woman" I just want to be friends.....there is a very good chance he may like you as well......tell him....you have nothing to lose..
2006-07-05 14:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Colossians 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just say hey was up wanna go out sometime? then you go out and then you make your move and tell him you like him. the chances are he likes you to and was waiting for you to give him the heads up
2006-07-05 13:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_thang_in_da_bed15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha normally i'd have a smarta$$ remark here but i've got the same problem only i'm a guy and i like a girl that i work with.
2006-07-05 13:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by xeroxpoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is a good friend, then I'm sure he will totally understand it (and appreciate it) if you share your true feelings with him.
2006-07-05 13:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok trust me on this one!!!if it seems like he likes you back then ask,BUT if he doesnt then dont ask!!cause every time i had a good friend that was a girl and i asked her,we never talkd again!!!
2006-07-05 13:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he likes you too, u dont want him to dislike u after, or freak out or make fun of you or even humiliate you, so do some research, x
2006-07-06 10:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋