I have like where I want it picked out: On a beach somewhere fab.
The date: May 30, 2020
And I have the type of dress I want and I know what I want the reception to be like. I know what type of flowers I want and what kind of chairs! Am I crazy? I'm not like Monica on FRIENDS and have like a binder filled with stuff, but I have some pictures saved onto a Microsoft Word thingy. I don't talk about it ever, but I think about it alot! I mean if i'm bored in class i'll think over beaches I can have it at! lol When did you guys start planning yours?
Awesome!
Thanks!
2006-07-05 06:42:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honey, I've been planning my wedding since I was 4... and I'll tell you alot of my ideas have changed depending on the person I was dating (if we were serious). I think picking a specific date is a little unreasonable because you don't know when you'll meet the person you want to marry. Just keep these things in mind and when you find the right person, you'll have a good idea of what you want... never hurts to be a little prepared!
2006-07-13 04:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say thats weird. To think about it and stuff is normal, but to go all out like that is a bit much considering you'll probably change your mind alot in the next like 14 years or so and your wedding plans includ what your future husband wants too, not just you. I mean I thought about mine alot and my wedding was NOTHING like I pictured it to be and I realize now that how I pictured it was just way too much. I got married when i was only 19. Didnt see that one coming and I had a small wedding with just a few people when I had planned for a big 200 person wedding. Your 15. Think about other things like school, clothes and friends. You have plenty of time to grow up and plan a wedding.
2006-07-05 07:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wierd and you will probably change your mind once you actually start to get married and find that your plans and interests have changed by the time you have found that "someone" and considering you are 15 and your wedding won't be for another 14 years if it is in 2020, there are many things that can happen. The most important thing being that you may not even meet that someone or he may not be quite ready for the total committment of that yet. Men have a more difficult time with the forever thing than women...less so now than in the past...but they still do. I never really had my wedding planned out. My boyfriend is more the one who thinks about that than me.
2006-07-16 15:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by inen_inen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely not alone. When I was your age, I had a lot of ideas of how I wanted my wedding to be, including the dress, the tux the guy wears, flowers, menu for the reception. Just keep it in perspective. The exact date may not happen (i.e. it may not be 2020) and your choice in dress may change. Women's sense of fashion tends to change as we grow up. One thing you might want to think about though, is that this might be what you end up doing as a career - i.e. Wedding Planner. That's what I am now and I had a lot of my wedding planned back in high school. Don't stress out too much about it and just have fun with it.
2006-07-05 11:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird no. Obsessive yes. If you continue to obsess over these "plans" and they do not come to fruition (come true) you could become depressed. Why would you want to focus and devote some much time for something that may never happen? Hate to burst your bubble, kid, but life doesn't not always work out the way you plan. Besides you're only 15 years old. Way too young to be thinking about any of these things. How about focusing on going to college getting an education and job to finance that wedding? It's 2006 not 1956!! You've got options...use 'em.
2006-07-05 09:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Little me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all. Most woman plan out there dream wedding before they even have a boyfriend or groom in mind. I started planning mine probably before i was 15, and over the years have just changed it up a little. I am 28 now. Still not married though. So sad.
2006-07-15 21:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by younggb77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced right into a similar. I considered the marriage day because the day we'd want to be married and at the same time as human beings ask for each of the records, they pick to take heed to that you will be having a quite princess day extravaganza, which isn't the case for all and diverse. similar as you, I gave short, obscure solutions, often 'it really is going solid. thanks for asking. through ways, how's that whatchyamacallit some thing happening on your existence determining?' i don't believe of it really is weird and wonderful, only a mirrored image of a diverse personality form...you're literally not the stereotypical bride whose existence has stopped for a wedding ceremony.
2016-11-05 22:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls always dream about their wedding, and even make plans. Just remember a couple things: One: don't be surprised if you change your mind as you get older! and two: the wedding date part is a little weird due to the fact that you might not find somebody that soon, or you might decide to wait. Just keep an open mind! Planning a wedding is fun!!!
2006-07-05 08:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird. i dont remember when i started planning my wedding. i think i was around your age. im now 24 and married. iv always wanted a wedding at a castle, but never happend. well i was realllly close to a castle. just couple blocks away. it was way too hot to go up to the castle and have the wedding so we kept it in a church. but we did go up to the castle for couple minutes and took pictures. iv always wanted a dress made from lace. so i never found one like the way i wanted it and i custome made it.
you can dream right now and plan your wedding. nothing wrong with that. but just keep in mind that by the time you do get married the style will change big time and you will want to have a wedding thats in style. but its all up to you. have fun now while your single. being married can be really hard and stressful. but wonderful too
2006-07-05 07:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls dream of their weddings from the day they first go to one or even know whay one is, I know I did!
Though your date may end up off, never to early to KNOW what you want. It takes tons of planning, think of the $ too.
Also, give some though into what you WANT in a husband! That's what really lasts!
Hey I sharred my dreams with my then boyfriend, and he made them ALL come true! He is the most I'd dreamed of in a husband. I(I had my dress and bouquet etc. long before we set a date!) He even takes out the trash! Said I didn't do trash and he agreed before we were engaged! Has taken care of it every since!
2006-07-05 07:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by jenn339 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋