he has cheating tendancies and is mean to me, but I can't afford to move out, what do I do? We have been together for 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter.
2006-07-05 06:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by Diamonds_4Ever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a roommate willing to share expenses and get it set up around the time your lease is up. (Hopefully that won't be too long) be an adult about it all as you have a daughter with him). As long as he is not abusing you, you should be able to handle it...good luck! Most men are pigs!
2006-07-05 06:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want some changes and that you are only askin for a few minutes of his time if he cannot accept your feeling than honey it is time to move on tell him that if you cant work things out he needs to pay you child support and move in with a friend until you get back on your feet. You shouldnt be in a relationship if he is cheating you never know where the other girls have been and you know the saying if he sleeps with another woman and then sleeps with you... you are sleeping with all the women hes slept with! get out of there before its too late and he hurts you! Good luck!
2006-07-05 06:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by LawGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move into the bedroom with your daughter temporarily and let him fly his freak...don't stay in a relationship because you can't afford to move. it is not fair or healthy for you or your daughter. just share the house until you figure out what u can do and start dating other people. good luck to you...i knw it's much harder when you have a child to deal with...but don't settle for less than you deserve.
2006-07-05 06:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that person is made for u means definitely be with u 4 ever but if he is not made for u means u cant do anything dearie.so if a relationship is not working keep moving as time heels best.who knows u might end up finding an even more better person whom u deserve.so stop worrying
2006-07-05 06:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by presto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on. It's bad for your little girl to see him abuse you -- even if it's only verbal. She will grow up to think that she should accept whatever you are accepting from him. Really. Move on now.
2006-07-05 06:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys should start all over by rebuilding the relationship, good luck.
2006-07-05 06:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone to stay with.
Someone with a little money....... friends or family.
Not much else will help.
2006-07-05 06:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way baby girl. don't think it's hopeless. keep looking for a way out. otherwise, you'll feel empty.
2006-07-05 06:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him...you are not happy so dont stay...go to a friend or family member for help
2006-07-05 06:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Big M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You end it and kick him out. Im sure that he can manage.
2006-07-05 06:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋