I really really love my bf, but...i dont like the fact that he drinks to much, i have told him it bothers me but he just gets defensive and keeps drinking. I dont know what to do becuase it is hard to leave somone you love but iam not happy with his habit..what should i do?
2006-07-05 06:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by :::Rae::: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your determined to stay and stick it out, try, try and keep trying to get him to cut back tremendously if not quit. Tell him about the love you have for him and want him healthy so he can stay around and reciprocate that love? Hopefully, he will eventually see your love in nagging as simply care and concern for the benefit of you guys relationship, GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-05 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by TheGr8st 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-07-05 13:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ron K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your bf might be an alcoholic. Tell him to stop drinking or it's over. Just think about this, if he doesn't stop drinking now and you continue to see him-it will probably get worse. Sorry you are going through this.
2006-07-05 13:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by domestic?goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry... but it looks like he already doesn't respect how you feel about his drinking. It's heading down a road you probably don't want to travel.
2006-07-05 13:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by kebbs32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people n this world drink to much if his drinking affects his career or if he gets druunk and takes it out on you then end it but if it doesn't change other aspects of his life then it is not out of control and you should work on it
2006-07-05 13:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you see a big red flag?, not the Chinese flag. Run the other way. Better now than later
2006-07-05 13:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break it off with him and tell him when he breaks the habit then you can get back together until then its over.
2006-07-05 13:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple answer: a-b-s-o-l-u-t-e-l-y!
You've tried, it's not working. It would be hard enough if he even agreed to try. He cannpt stop without help, and he won't get help.
Don't make your life as bad as his.
take care darlin'
2006-07-05 13:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum or see if he'll try drinking less.....All you can do is ask him and tell him how you really feel.
2006-07-05 13:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man dump him they say drinking damages brain cells he'll turn stupid soon
2006-07-05 13:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by wen godzilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋