i told my girlfriend that i was in love with her, and she didnt say it back. I know i wasnt looking for the exact same response back but secretly i wished she would have. Now i feel like the pressure is on her, and it might compromise our relationship.
2006-07-05 05:49:42 · 10 answers · asked by megsaysstellar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember when you "sincerely" love someone, you love them for who they are so whether she tells you she loves you or not shouldn't change how you feel for her.
I don't think she would feel pressured or it might compromise the relationship unless you're constantly asking her how she feels for you. Now that you've said it and just because she hasn't said it back to you, I hope you don't treat her differently where it contributes to some awkwardness where it just might compromise the relationship.
Just be patient. Wouldn't you rather she tell you that she loves you when she's finally ready to say it rather than her feeling obligated to just because you said it?
2006-07-05 05:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
She didn't say it back b/c she didn't love me. It's been many years and it still hurts when I think about it. I was expecting a very different reaction, but she pulled away from me when I said it and broke up with me two months after my gaffe. They say guys never quite get over it. I'm here to say it's true. Part of me is still hurting over the loss of the one I was crazy about. My friends told me she wasn't all that special/great looking. There were several very nice looking girls she hung out with, but to me, she was the only one I saw. It's like the others weren't even there. She was the one who got away.
2015-10-30 18:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chair Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be glad you have a level headed girl. most girls would just say it back without meaning it. tell her you appreciate that shes honest, and that you dont mind waiting for someone as wonderful as her. this will make her feel special and take the pressure off. also, a code is nice, we used to do three squeezes, so no one would know what we were doing. 1,2,3. i love you. lol.
2006-07-05 05:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by sslowbliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just give it some time... i told my boyfriend that i loved him and he didnt say it back right away... he said "i wuv you" or "i luv you" but ne never said "i love you" and so i jut waited for him to say it... eventually he fell in love with me and actually told me that... but in the mean time, i say, make up some crazy word that you can say to the other person that lets them know how you feel. like my boyfriend and i now say "i ger you" which is just our substitute to show the other our feelings
it might be a bit confusing, but all we did is that instead of saying "love" we made up our own word that is special to just the 2 of us so that only we understand it
2006-07-05 05:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might of scared her. those are the hardest three words to say. just give her some time and let her bring it up to you again. you have already expressed your feeling toward her. give her some time. if she really likes/loves you she will say it.
2006-07-05 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her reveal her feelings to you. Let her know that you didn't mean to put pressure on her; you were just expressing yourself to her. I was the first to reveal that info to my wife, and nothing bad happened. Just let it ride for now. You'll get your answer.
2006-07-05 05:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants to hear it back but ask yourself this would you rather she say it and not mean it or say it when she feels ready.
2006-07-05 06:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it take time to say i love u but jus give it time she going to say it it shouldnt miss up the relationship
2006-07-05 05:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by latara j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, give her a chance to find out and see if she really does care
2006-07-05 05:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not ready, give her some time
2006-07-05 05:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by xzhou11377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋