my ex had been calling and calling. i finally answered. he says he wanted to know if i was ok. we started talking, i broke down crying saying how could he and what about all the promises he had made. he said he had things he needed to work on as a man, i agreed but said if he really loved me he could do both (be with me and work on himself). long story short we kept talking back and forth, he's saying he's going to always be in my life because he's always gonna care for me. the last thing he said was he couldnt come back now anyway..i said why not....he said because he acted rashly...thats when the phone got cutt off. what do yall think about the situation?
2006-07-05 05:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told you he needs to work on himself. It sounds like he is telling you what he wants. Just take that as a cue to go ahead and work on yourself. Don't look for some guy to treat you like a queen, just figure out what makes you happy. Find contentment in yourself and then you will be able to share your life with another.
2006-07-11 14:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be an idiot for believing anything this guy says. "things he needed to work on as a man" my ***. A real man takes care of somebody he loves he don't run away. Move on, he is keeping you in the background while he screws around. When he is tired of that he will come back to you. Then he will get tired of you again and leave again. He keeps you in his back pocket and that is not love. You are wasting time. Go have fun and find someone who will treat you like a queen.
2006-07-05 12:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by joelrnic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think men are capable of changing all that much once they past the age of 11 or 12. The problems or issues that they are dealing with will be apart of them and shape their personalities. You sound like you may be a bit lonely and depressed so it's making you kind of vulnerable to his desperate plees. Most woman in this kind of situation are/ or have been with Men way beneath their level. Screw him and move on. Let him take his sob story to the B**ch that was probaly with him when the phone got cut off.
2006-07-05 12:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋