My boyfriend wanted to makeout but i couldn't force myself to do it .He wanted to and he got mad because i didn't. He said "i guess you don't love me then" and i felt bad because i think i do but i think its infactuation,not sure so i need your guys help to tell me what to do. Should I makeout with him? And is it infactuation?
2006-07-05 05:28:30 · 25 answers · asked by Grace J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does he only want one thing?
2006-07-05 05:33:18 · update #1
If you aren't ready to make out with him don't. If he is giving you lines like then you don't love me, say them back to him. Because if he loves you he will respect you. He needs to learn to respect you and your feelings. If he doesn't, dump him and find a guy who does.
2006-07-05 05:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this guy respects you, he wouldn't get mad over a such a little thing. I mean, being pressured isn't a "it-was-nothing" ordeal. But if he's mature he would respect your decisions instead of trying to make you feel guilty for something he wanted to do. If you're not ready, then don't do anything. You want a guy who is mature, respectful, and loves everything about you. Good luck with this!
2006-07-05 12:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by dabugster20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap his face- tell him to grow up and stop abusing women, cause that is exactly what he is doing by demanindg that form you and using lame excuses that you don't love him. Love has nothgin to do with it he wanted a piece of you that you are not able willing to give right now and he has nto reason or right to demand it of you. You may only like him and that is jsut fine, take your time and he can't wait then he is not the guy for you. Your man will respect your wishes and your feeligns and not demean you or make you feel small.
2006-07-05 12:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by trialtoid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making out is nothing wrong to do with your boyfriend but if your not ready then you shouldn't do anything you dont want to do. And that whole " i guess you dont love me" is bull, because if he loved you then he wouldn't be trying to make you do anything youre not ready to do and then get mad about it.
2006-07-05 12:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not make out with him. You should not do a thing for which you are not ready.Your boyfriend if he really loves you then he should respect you and should not force such things.Judge
him properly and see whether he loves you ??????
2006-07-05 12:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't listen to that "if you love me..." bullshit from him. All he is tryin to do is guilt you into doing something you don't feel like doing. If he says that crap to you, then he really doesn't respect you. You need to tell him that you are just not ready or you just don't feel comfortable enough to do that. If he doesn't understand that or tries to guilt you, dump his ***! Don't let him push you into doing something you don't want to do. You don't need that.
2006-07-05 12:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the oldest line in history, "You'll put out if you really love me....". It must be your decision, do not be forced into doing anything you are not comfortable doing.
2006-07-05 12:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do ne thing your not wanting to. He is putting u through a guilt trip. Dont let him do that to u. I say dump him if he keeps pressuring you.
2006-07-05 12:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to do. If he's trying to make you feel bad about it, he's only after one thing.
2006-07-05 12:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by MEB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, if he loves you he won't force you to do anything. If he respects what you want, and feel, do it when your ready, otherwise get rid of him.
2006-07-05 12:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by poetry_queen17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋