I am 23 and the object of my infatuation is 37...we both made it clear to eachother over the weekend about what we want from eachother but I have to sit back and ask myself why I am infatuated with this man. He is completely wrong for me and a "relationship" could never possibly work between us...
Please tell me I am not the only one that get herself into trouble with men she knows she shouldn't!
2006-07-05 05:28:29 · 9 answers · asked by athletictrainer7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There may be several reasons for you being in relationships such as these and I have done the same thing as well.
I was 20 and involved with a 39 yr old who had an ex-wife, daughter and live in girlfriend. I stayed with him for five years. The truth was that I was 'safe' from his expectations of commitment, etc. I had my 'freedom' and I was in no trouble of being 'tied down' because of obvious reasons.
The main thing is you know that you are only infatuated. Your heart is not at stake. I believe when you are ready, you will settle, and someone who takes their time in decisions like this usually finds the right person the first time after deciding its time for family, marriage, etc.
I did. I am now seven months pregnant with my first baby and totally committed to the man I am now with.
So take you time, explore and enjoy the wrong ones until the right one comes along!!!
2006-07-05 05:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to hte best of us. I was 17 and looking at a 35 year old. Don't ask. But now i am 21 and engaged to a wonderful 28 man. Life will work out.
2006-07-05 12:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, such is life I'm afraid and by no means are you the only one that experiences this type of situation.
2006-07-05 12:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA..the story of life sister!! hehe..I dunno about you ..but I do this simply because I KNOW it won't work out..therefore no disappointment on my part. It comes from a fear of REALLY being loved or in love or relationships,etc..with someone you can truly be with...I think it may have something to do with emotional unavailability on your part. What do you find appealing about him..and that is your answer!!
2006-07-05 12:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not...i find myself in a very similiar situation and it's driving me on the brink of insanity...so confused i am...you're not alone, it's nice to know i'm not either
2006-07-05 12:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not alone. i also wanted the 'forbidden' fruit. it is the ultimate passionate thing to do. impossible relationships are daring, exciting, naughty, secretive and down right delicious. thats why we all do it.but at the end our conscious catches up with us and we suffer for our deeds.
2006-07-05 12:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not, I have had friends that did that all the time and it took a little time for them to come to their senses, but they worked through it
2006-07-05 12:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...we are women are stupid like that.....especially when it comes to these kinda things...its like we purposely jump from the frying pan into the fire.......
2006-07-05 12:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get out of it. Be smart.
2006-07-05 12:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋