I met him while visiting a friend. He remembered me from that long ago. We had great conversation and it just turned into great
sex,mind you hthat i hadnt had since Janauary, I know that sometimes guys lose interest after they "hit", but guys is there anything I can do to make him want to know me now, or to interest him in a relationship with me?
2006-07-05 05:25:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had not had sex for seven months and I just went for it, I am noit easy and never have been, I just wanted comfort and to feel good for a moment, I know I have more to offer but I think that I may have screwed my chances literally.
2006-07-05 05:40:57 · update #1
IL, you'll find there is a significant difference between "men", and "boys", "men" are not simply all about sex. If you are dealing with a man, he will appreciate the fun that you guys shared. He will not find a substitute for a lack of self pride by hitting it and quitting it. I also admire the fact that you chose to enjoy yourself, without letting others make you feel guilty about that decision (Women have the right to choose sex, just like men do). If I were you I would stay with your direct and honest nature, and simply talk to him. The encounter can simply be a memory, or something much more.
2006-07-05 05:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Futeach 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to know more about the guy than you can figure out what you want to do. I mean is he available or is he taken? Even though you knew him since 5th grade, it doesn't seem that you know anything about him.
Second, sex is sex. So unless you and him had something else other than sex to discuss, I would forget him. Just figure it was good sex and just move on. It's easier to have sex like you said, but it depends on how deep your conversation was. Was he warm to you or did it just seem like something that was a "one night stand"?
I would really try to figure this out before you end up getting hurt. It's easier to forget him after this if it wasn't serious. But later on, it will hurt more. Check it out before you make it more than it can/will be!!!
2006-07-05 12:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of hard to establish a relationship when you have skipped some steps. I am not saying that it is impossible but it will be hard. I think that you should call him and talk to him about how you feel. Sometimes we get carried away with our feelings and sometimes we are our own worst enemy. Make sure you establish some boundaries and further get to know, you are not in 5th grade anymore! You certainly have changed and be careful about how fast you put yourself out there.
2006-07-05 12:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by latina311204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to make a relationship out of something that is obviously lust?? Keep him around as a booty call and see if something develops. if not, oh well leave it alone. Tell him the sex was great and that you should make it on a regular basis.
2006-07-05 12:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by meangyrl21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you must very young!!! listen you can base a relationship with good sex....just because you guys had good sex doesn't mean that a relationship is going to develop...plus men think different than women...you were just another piece of ***...don't confuse lust and love they sound the same but are NOT the same. keep him as a butty call...treat them the way they like to treat women....grow up be wise.....
2006-07-05 12:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him if he is interested in seeing you. Tell him you loved the sex and are interested in finding out more about him. Maybe he is waiting for you to make a move.
2006-07-05 12:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may already want one...see, if you knew each other as children, it is likely he will feel more at ease with you and honest. I suggest just asking him straight up what he is looking for right now in terms of romance....good luck!
2006-07-05 12:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that your interested and not just wanting to have a memory of that one night stand
2006-07-05 12:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could lead to something more but I would not hold my breath. Just wait and see if he calls you......if he don't fret over it. You will have amazing sex again with someone else.
2006-07-05 12:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highly doubtful. The only way you'll know though is to stay in touch. Go out on dates and don't wait for him to ask, you ask. However, once again, highly doubtful.
2006-07-05 12:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋