wot wud u do?
2006-07-05 05:24:01 · 12 answers · asked by nicola hart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, one of my first boyfriends was a cross dresser. he wasnt gay, but liked to wear womens clothes. i didnt find this out until we had gone out for two years. im pretty open minded, so i didnt make a big deal out of it, though i did tell him to stay out of my underwear because he was stretching them out. lol. i took him out, bought him some lacy things and womens clothes, gave him a makeover and we went out as two girls. have a talk with him, find out if he just likes the clothes or he thinks he might want to be with a man. if its just the clothes, dont worry about it, have fun with it. if he thinks he might want to be with a man, and you think you can handle that, then make sure you tell him to wear a condom, and have him take a shower when he comes home before you have sex with him. if you cant handle him being with men, then you guys need to have a serious talk about where your relationship is going. good luck, and feel free to write me if you want to talk about it.
2006-07-05 05:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by sslowbliss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would make myself a drink (just the one) to give myself a few moments so I could recover from the shock and keep calm.
Then I would go and talk to them about it, calmly and lovingly.
If I loved them very much, I would say it is OK to do this and talk to them about it anytime. Maybe there is something I could wear that would add to the process.
If this feels too difficult, consider some therapy for both of you.
2006-07-05 05:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if was a wearing your clothes thats fine but
if it was a guy wearing Womens clothes that F****D UP!
2006-07-05 05:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by genocyber69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Ok what if it was the other way round... would you like to where his clothes to sort of feel he was there with you and hugging and touching you... may be the same thing with him... ie he is not gay but playing with yout clothes which smell of you remindes him of you.
2006-07-05 06:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would roll around on the floor laughing.
2006-07-05 05:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by R.I.P. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd undress him down to (my) underwear then jump into bed with him
2006-07-05 05:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think I would laugh, and then I would ask him what was going on.
2006-07-05 05:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first always... take pictures. They always work on Judge Judy.
2006-07-05 05:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by jody k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the washing machine on
2006-07-05 05:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
got them on now hmmmmmmmmmmm lol
2006-07-05 05:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by toecutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋