Question for the guys - met a guy, went out with him a few times, had fun, both liked each other very much, had a fight, told him to kiss off, e-mailed apology, sporatic e-mails back & forth that I always initiate (maybe every 2 weeks or so). I want to see him, if I call him would it be stalking. He really liked me (more than I liked him) - will he be flattered or annoyed?
2006-07-05 05:13:55 · 28 answers · asked by msgene61@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you can do is throw the line out there. Put the ball in his court and see what he does with it. Don't go overboard. He may be in a relationship right now since you told him to piss-off. He may think you are a psycho that does not know what she wants which is 99.9999% of women anyway. I always cast the line so in the future it isn't me that didn't make the effort. Send an email, text, voicemail whatever but I would not do it more than 2x before I heard back. Then if no "tug" take your boat to another location.
2006-07-05 05:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
I'm gonna be honest, and bold, if you only went out with him a few times, get over it, it was not that long, i mean, if you guys had a fight and did not know each other for that long, then it was not worth it, whenever you first meet someone, you are getting to know each other, enjoying each other's company, not fighting, leave that for the couples that have been together for at least 6 months, just get over it, there are a million fish in the sea
2006-07-05 05:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be stalking, but if you call him eveyday it will get annoying, and he may consider it as stalking. Give him time, and then call, he be flattered by the fist two calls, but after that it will be annoying. Good Luck
2006-07-05 05:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by poetry_queen17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like talking or moving with you, avoids you and has showed enough interest to keep you away and still you insist on following him, calling him, sending emails, then it becomes stalking. If he reciprocates properly and both of you are on the same plain, then it is mutual understanding.
2006-07-05 05:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by viv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I am not a guy to me that wouldn't be stalking if you really love him and you wanna be with him then go ahead give him a call.
2006-07-05 05:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you've crossed line into stalking. He just needs to respond and if he isn't interested in continuing the relationship, so be it. Maybe you should just say in your email just that. Does he want to see you anymore or is it over.
2006-07-05 05:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Curbkindaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annoyed.
2006-07-05 05:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wondering why you told him to kiss off but you want to talk to him. I don't consider it stalking but maybe hard for him to figure you out lol
2006-07-05 05:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I can tell you that you need to let this dude come to you. You've done your part and if you do anything else, he's going to think that you're desperate and take you for a fool.
Let him meet you half way, BACK OFF!!!!!!
2006-07-05 05:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like stalking. It sounds a slow start of a relationship. If he is replying to you in a pleasant mannor, then keep going.
2006-07-05 05:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Brewfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋