I think about this guy all the time. I keep sending him mails with all my thoughts. I think i send atleast 4 mails per day.
Is this normal when one is in love? Or am i behaving abnormally?
Incidentally,that guy is not interested in me.
2006-07-05 05:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by daffodil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unrequited love can be the most painful sort. If this guy is not interested in you, then all you are doing is probably getting on his nerves and wasting your own time and energy on something that will prove fruitless. Hard though it may seem, you need to divert your attentions to something more positive sweetie. I mean why waste your time pining for something that will never be. Who knows once you stop giving him this attention, he may realise that he misses it and want to ask you out on a date!
You are worth more than this, if you have such a lot of love inside you, you should try to focus it on something worthwhile until you find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. You could volunteer at a local animal shelter and share your lovely personality with some of the unloved cats and dogs or volunteer at a centre for orphaned kids who are desperately in need of someone to show them some love and caring.
Good luck and I am sure you will find Mr Right sooner or later!
2006-07-05 05:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abnormal! But so common! So many people waste time trying to make someone love or like them. I mean, good grief! Charlie Brown the little red headed girl is so not into you. So you will spend every valentine's day crying over her. When peppermint patty is right there in your face. So why are you throwing yourself at him if you know he's not interested in you? I am sure there are a lot of guys who are interested in you so why not focus on one of them instead?
2006-07-05 12:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop with the obsession, specially since he is not interested in you. If you keep on begging he will keep on rejecting you. You don't want him to be rude to you, do you? Do you want to show him that you have no self control and respect to continue on with this behavior although you know your feelings are not being reprocicated.
Sto sending him emails, he might think that you are stalking him. Ignoring the guy will draw more attention than to shower him with unwanted emails. Good luck
2006-07-05 12:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy isn't interested, all that mail you're sending will probably turn him off further. Stop being so aggressive and wait for him to respond.
2006-07-05 12:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off a lil bit agressive women are hot but thats a lil over board
2006-07-05 12:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must stop this..you are a girl and in future you'll find one care alot about you and love you...but this guy you are talking about, don't deserve what you do...he don't love you...the most important thing in love is to love and be loved
2006-07-05 12:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by sweetshima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him the f*ck alone. your anoying the sh!t out of him and probly p!ssin him off.
2006-07-05 12:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by byteme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say, "Crazy Stalker"?
2006-07-05 12:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋